Ex Sex
I have a problem.
I used to be married but I got divorced. I am currently living with someone else but for the last 2 years since my divorce I am still going to my x wife's house at night and we have sex. Better then ever.
I know I still love her and that she loves me. The only thing is the last couple of days she is turning me down and saying to me: "No don't come today; I will call you" and stuff. I tell her on a daily basis: "Let's try it, let's see each other like this for some time and if it goes fine I will leave my current girl friend and come back to where I wanna be".
The question is what can I do to show her that I wanna try to do just that?? Because for her it is like I just wanna come over have sex, cum and leave, and for me it isn't like that. The last time I walked in and she said take of you clothes. She took of her p.j.'s, she was naked there and she said come do what you gotta do, fuck me and leave. I did have sex with her because at my house with my current girl friend I'm not having sex because of the mixed feelings and wanting my ex wife so yes. I penetrated her and yes I fucked her but it was just in out in out cum cum and that's it.
When she said to me take of your clothes for me it was like wawww she wants to see me naked and she wants to play with me and suck my cock and stuff but noooo just in out in out no kisses no nothing she did not even want me to lick and suck her pussy + titties.
What should I do?
Whether you and your wife get back together or not there's something you need to take care of immediately: STOP CHEATING ON YOUR GIRLFRIEND. If you want to be with your ex-wife, then why are you still living with someone else? It is unfair to your girlfriend to have you running around to have sex with your ex-wife like this, ok?
First things first: Confess to your girlfriend and end that relationship. If you want to stay with your girlfriend, then you MUST stop seeing your ex-wife.
As for your ex-wife: There's a reason she's your ex-wife and I'd be willing to bet that you aren't the only man she's having sex with. Let's pretend, for a moment, that maybe she does want to be with you again - the fact that you live with someone else is a bit of a problem, isn't it? If your ex-wife wants proof that you want to try, then be a man and step up and leave your current girlfriend.
In any case, I feel sorry for your current girlfriend - seeing how you're treating her, I can't blame your ex-wife for saying what she does. You need to do the right thing here and stop lying to everyone involved and get yourself out of this mess.
First Kiss
My girlfriend wants to kiss me and I wanna kiss her but she can't seem to do it because its her first time.
How can I make her feel comfortable so I can kiss her?
Ah... I remember my first kiss! 14 years later, I still get a case of the giggles the first time I kiss someone new! Taking me by surprise seems to be the only way past it, and it can be very romantic. My boyfriend & I have been together 5 years now - when he first tried to kiss me, I knew he was about to and would start laughing. He waited until I was leaving, and moved in to kiss me before I realized he was going to, and I never giggled again!
So - next time your with her, wait until she least expects it, maybe while you're watching tv. Keep it simple, move towards her and just give her a gentle kiss (no scaring her off by jamming your tongue down her throat, and just light pressure of your lips on hers ok? Don't bruise her, but let her know you're there!) , hold it for a couple seconds, then move away. That should be a nice, not intimidating first kiss that will hopefully make her feel a little more comfortable.
Good luck!
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