Small Penis
My penis is really, REALLY SMALL, and I am afraid that when time comes for me to have sex with my girlfriend, she will just laugh, and then dump me for being really small. What can I do?!?!??!
What can you do? There is only one option. Tell her.
You can't know until you try. Worst case is that you will get laughed at and/or she will dump you. Best case is that she won't care what size you are. You won't find out unless you talk to her.
The question : Does size matter?
The answer: Yes. But....
But... not to all women. Some women are "size queens" and size is of vital importance. Other women are far more concerned about technique or foreplay or simply personality.
I don't know what you mean by REALLY small. Average is 5" to 6". Small would be below 5" and REALLY small would be below 4". In my mind at any rate. Size is also in the eyes of the beholder. If your girlfriend is a virgin or has only been with lesser endowed men then she won't be put off.
Also, woman's vagina's vary in size too. Some women want a smaller penis as larger ones hurt them.
Good luck.
Elusive G-Spot
I've been married for 28 years. My wife and I have sex 2-3 times per week. She has 1-2 orgasms each time we make love.
Sounds perfect, right?
I'm in a never ending search for the "g" spot. Does it really exist?
Wow - how wonderful that you guys are enjoying such an active sex life after 28 years! Yes, that sounds pretty perfect!
But ah, the elusive g-spot. I personally have not found mine, but many women will attest to it's existence. The most common and successful method I know of to find it is to start by having her lie down on her stomach.
Slide 1 or 2 fingers inside her, palm down (lubricant if necessary!) and crook your fingers down towards her navel in a "come hither" motion, about 2 to 3 inches up along her vaginal wall. Stroke gently or have her rotate her pelvis until you find a small section that feels a bit different - some say it feels like an almond under the skin, some say the skin feels different.
Most women say they feel a need to urinate when the gspot is stimulated, so that's one way to tell! If at first you don't succeed, try try again! It's not an easy task. There are also many toys out there designed to help find and stimulate. Check these out.
Hope for the uncut?
Is there anyway to make a penis bigger and longer if the penis isn't circumcises yet?
Does the skin cause a problem with becoming fully erect?
Also, every time I have sex with my wife, I don't last long, I orgasm before my wife. I've tried condoms, delay cream, and masturbating before having sex. It's not working.
Is there anyway to hold orgasm a little bit longer ?
Having your foreskin still has nothing to do with the length and size of your penis. If anything, the foreskin increases sensation. This helps the penis get as long as thick and as hard as possible. Removal of your foreskin would not have any benefit at all in regards to the size of your penis.
There are a few things that you can try to help you wait to cum. My first suggestion would be to slow your breathing while you are having sex. If you can slow your rhythm down, it can help delay orgasm. Instead of shallow and fast breaths, breath deeply and slowly. You can also practice holding off cumming by taking your time masturbating. Slowly get yourself as hard as you can. Take your time working yourself into a complete erection. Do not ejaculate. Let the erection go down a bit. Start over again. See how long you can keep yourself hard and aroused without ejaculating. Finally, let yourself ejaculate. This will help extend how long it takes for you to cum.
Finally, you can also arouse your girlfriend until she is just about to cum, either with you mouth or hands, and then have sex with her. Or let her cum first and then you can try to make her cum again with your penis.
Truth in Letter-writing
Antoine writes:
I have seen the letter about the "ropes" in several magazines. I've seen it in a weight lifting magazine, other health-related magazines, and adult publications. Each time the story changes and seems to be more intense. Is this merely marketing promotional or is this letter true? If so, why does its content change from time to time?
Via Internet
The original letter is indeed real. It's kind of become one of those "discovery" letters (industry lore) that launched a bunch of knock-off products. The first supplement that contained "defined" flower pollen was Serogen, and the company that mentioned "increasing your ropes" was a small import/export company called "Somalab." Somalab was the first company to import this "defined" pollen. Once it was proven that the product was effective (it always takes a maverick willing to take a risk) bigger companies with more resources and money started to knock off Serogen with cheaper blends and use the term "ropes" just as Somalab does.
Remember, Serogen is the original; although there are many copycats, their blends are different and inferior. All of Somalab's products are credible, original, and its Serogen line is the most effective orgasm enhancer on the market.
No Morning O's
Why is it that most of the times we have sex in the morning I very rarely have an orgasm, but any other time of day it's usually not a problem?
The reason that it is sometimes difficult for women to achieve orgasms in the a.m. is that our hormone levels are the lowest in the morning and the highest at night. It is, however, the opposite for men. My suggestion would be that you try some extended and slow foreplay. The morning might be the time for you to bring out the sex toys. Try having your partner perform oral sex. It's a great way to start your day, but you might have to put in a little bit of extra time.
Mystery Fluid
The last time my lady and I got together we had great sex; before we fucked I licked her clit for a while. After we were finished, she told me she felt a little bit of fluid release. But I didn't experience anything noticeable. Since she has never had an orgasm I'm assuming she wouldn't really know what climaxing would feel like, let alone an orgasm that releases ejaculate. Also, I've never made a woman squirt before, but I wish I could. Do you have any improvement tips on cunnilingus or advice on technique to push her to have an orgasm?
Taylor L. - Los Angeles , CA
Statistics say that 75% of all women cannot have an orgasm through intercourse, but ... 95% of all woman can orgasm through oral sex. There are some women who are not sure if they have ever had an orgasm; some are afraid to have an orgasm. It is important for your partner to relax, know that she is safe, and that you won't judge her on how she reacts when she finally does have one. Some women will not allow themselves a chance to orgasm due to the fact they think they might not be able to control their bladder. Your partner may not have had an orgasm at all, but rather urinated a bit because she lost some control. Although this may seem gross, it is perfectly natural.
When you are being oral, be very patient. Do not rush things. Mix it up. Lick and tongue her vaginal lips and use your tongue like a little penis. Females tend to have two g-spots: the clitoris, and about three inches inside and up. Next time, try teasing her orally. Build it up some, licking and kissing her inner thighs, and possibly using a toy inside of her. Try making eye contact too. Erotic words can also increase one's pleasure tremendously. Most importantly, keep communication open before, during, and after any sexual act.
Eufrat – [NSFW]
Inspiration
Here at the Nancy-Ann office we see a lot of porn. I personally like the style and content of a few sites. Here is a young woman from FemJoy.com. Feel free to send me a comment if there is something else you would like to see.
For the reason we chose Eufrat's "Indian Summer" as this week's Best Of series, you need only look so far as the comments of our members:
Eufrat, all I can say is WOW!!! What a heart stopping experience it would be to be lucky enough to be there beside you!!! Need I say more?! It is cold shower time!!!
No question, this is one helluva lot of woman here. I've always liked fleshed-out women who maintain a well-rounded body with no spare tires, and Eufrat is a classic example of the type. Toned and well-fed, that's a delicate balance, and Eufrat does it in spades. I am among those who like a lot of rear elevation views, as long as they are offset by a good number of frontal- and side shots as this one is. Nice work, Demian, and kudos to you and to Eufrat!
OMG... I sure liked her sexy natural look on the first photo sets, but she's getting better and hotter with every set... Keep her coming!
Eufrat does it to me like very few women alive. Those breasts are so absurdly pretty, and she has hips and thighs and a very soft belly...one of the most enticing models in the world today. An absolute sex bomb. I love her, and thank you for presenting her, in such an explicit but not vulgar way. Which is kind of what you guys are famous for, right?
More at FEMJOY.com
First Kiss
My girlfriend wants to kiss me and I wanna kiss her but she can't seem to do it because its her first time.
How can I make her feel comfortable so I can kiss her?
Ah... I remember my first kiss! 14 years later, I still get a case of the giggles the first time I kiss someone new! Taking me by surprise seems to be the only way past it, and it can be very romantic. My boyfriend & I have been together 5 years now - when he first tried to kiss me, I knew he was about to and would start laughing. He waited until I was leaving, and moved in to kiss me before I realized he was going to, and I never giggled again!
So - next time your with her, wait until she least expects it, maybe while you're watching tv. Keep it simple, move towards her and just give her a gentle kiss (no scaring her off by jamming your tongue down her throat, and just light pressure of your lips on hers ok? Don't bruise her, but let her know you're there!) , hold it for a couple seconds, then move away. That should be a nice, not intimidating first kiss that will hopefully make her feel a little more comfortable.
Good luck!
Contradictory Claims
Nancy-Ann,
I have seen so many contradictory claims on various Web sites I have visited regarding Serogen, Ogoplex, Ropex, and others. I have yet to find any quantitative information on purity and dose of the active ingredients in any orgasm enhancers.
It would be nice to see fully documented and quantitative reports on "double blind" tests of the effectiveness of any sex enhancing product versus placebo in clinical trials. The ideal test would be where two groups are .selected one using the product and the other using sugar pills for a month or two or whatever and documenting quantitatively the sex frequency numbers, length of orgasm, rope count and recovery time for multiple orgasms. Then the rolls of the two groups are reversed and the test is repeated so that offset bias between the two groups is removed. Then the test could also compare effectiveness between different products, document the results and give product ingredient quantitative information so that the consumer can objectively compare them.
Is such data available? Could you forward it to me via email? If not could you give me a referral or point of contact for such data?
Don
There are a few clinical studies on cernitin (which is a generic form of the most popular Swedish flower pollen) and various groups of men with either benign prostate problems or sperm mobility issues. None I could find on the sexual effects of standardized pollen. My thinking is there would never be any UNBIASED studies comparing this type of sexual enhancer (the main reason it costs money for a third party to accomplish such a "scientific" task). Reviews on each product could be conducted, of course (and they are), but they are entirely biased and ultimately cannot be substantiated. I say this because all men are different and the end result is based on what each individual's "ideal" of just what and how much was "enhanced." (It's not much different as reading a wide variety of largely differing movie reviews: They are based on the critics "idea" of what they thought about the same movie.
I know because I conducted my first product review on male orgasm enhancers (click on my "product review" link). As you'll see, the reviews are based on the legitimacy of the distributors themselves, customer care, pricing, packaging and quantity (which, I've found, most always reflects the quality of the products sold).
Finding a group of men, having them try each product for a month, letting them cycle off for a month, then onto the next, and so on and so forth ... would take considerable time and effort for all parties involved. And still it would biased by a myriad amount of variables (one of which I mentioned above). Gathering all the products and having a third-party laboratory break down each formula in order to find which herbal amalgamation is superior, is, as I mentioned, is simply too expensive.
Letter of the Month
Comparing Products
Hey Nancy! Do VigRX
™ and Serogen™ do the same thing? And if not, is it safe to take both products at the same time without overdosing or harming myself? I take VigRx, and am satisfied, but this Serogen really gets me thinking...what to do?
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