Anal Sex Convincing?
How do I convince my wife to agree to anal sex?
My advice would be to ask her. Tell her that you think that it is really hot and you will make sure that you don’t hurt her. Make sure that she is completely relaxed. Maybe have a couple glasses of wine. If she is not relaxed it will hurt her. Make sure that you prepare her by inserting a finger or two into her anus. Use lubrication, it helps. You can use something like KY Jelly or lotion. Very slowly put your penis into your anus and tell her that if at any time she feels too uncomfortable that you will stop.
As a side note, do not pull your penis all the way out and then reinsert it fully again. This is a little painful. Good luck.
Update: From Askmen.com
Because anal sex feels good
Women love anal sex because it can feel absolutely incredible. It's different in sensation and it doesn’t feel like anything else she may have felt before -- it's deep inside, it's not her clitoris and is not in her vagina, but feels strangely like both in a sort of mixed-up combination in another part of her body. The rectum, once it’s ready, literally swallows the penis up and can’t get enough. The back passage transforms itself into a sexual playground. If the clitoris and/or vagina are stimulated while you are inside of her, it can take her to another sexual realm. Anal orgasms are possible.
Butt be Clean
My wife an I enjoy anal, but cleaning yourself out for it is a time consuming thing. when watching porn, the women in the movie are so clean, and there is no shit or film on anal ring. how is it done?
The way that most porn-stars get their asses so clean, is by having an enema 1-3 hours before the anal shoot.
First. let me say that an enema isn't necessary in order to have safe, relatively clean anal sex. Many people find that a nice warm and soapy shower or bath and going to the bathroom before anal sex gets them pretty clean. But other people find that an enema helps reassure them about the cleanliness of their asses and the emptiness of their bowels.
If you've never had an enema before, you may want to start with an anal douche; these are popularly called "enemas," but are less complicated to administer. You can buy a Fleet Enema, which has a pre-lubricated nozzle and is easy to use. Make sure you empty out the chemical solution and refill the bottle with plain warm water that feels like it's around body temperature. Squeeze the bottle to release the water into your rectum. Wait a few minutes, go sit on the toilet and let nature take its course. You can repeat the anal douche (about 2-3 times) until your bowels are completely cleaned out.
Giving yourself an enema with an enema bag takes a little more skill, so i suggest that you start with the anal douche.
If you're having an anal douche or enema in preparation for anal sex, you should do it at least 2-3 hours prior to the sex to give your body a chance to reabsorb water and recover. It's not a good idea to have enemas too frequently. They tend to stress out your rectum and too much of this can really throw your rectum, bowels and gastrointestinal tract off balance.


