Nancy-Ann advice on sex, love and erotic enhancements

21Feb/100

Uncut Masturbatory Annoyance

My penis is uncut and yet when I masturbate my foreskin becomes exposed and starts to get sensitive and it stings to the touch. I find this annoying. Is there any product that might help cut down on the irritation?

Jimmy

Whether circumcised or uncircumcised, the method of self sexual stimulation for all men is identical: the movement and friction created by using your own hands stimulates the nerve endings on the head and shaft of the penis. However, uncut men have more to worry about than their cut brothers.

Overly vigorous stimulation can sometimes lead to Phimosis and/or paraphimosis).
My gender limits me from giving you detailed advice, but one way to avoid the irritation you are experiencing is as simple as changing up your masturbatory approach and technique as well as lengthening the time between masturbatory intervals.

One effective way to reduce the onset of friction that might be leading your skin to become irritated is to use a good water-based lubricant (there are dozens of excellent Silicone-based lubricants on the market).  Silicone-based lubricants are your best bet since they do not tend to get sticky and therefore are less likely to cause irritation (click here to see a wide range of lubricants).
Hope this helps.

3Sep/090

Earth Shattering BJ

I just have a simple question. How do you give an earth-shattering blow-job to your boyfriend?

Every man likes different things when it comes to getting a blow-job, but I can give you the basics of an amazing blow-job. First cup his balls with one hand and take his entire penis into your mouth. Get him wet by pulling your tongue and lips from the base of his penis to the head. Hold the shaft of his penis in your hand and lick the head like you are licking an ice cream cone. Alternate this with sucking his penis as far into your mouth as you can. Often the combination of a hand-job at the base of the penis and a good wet suction at the head will help him come. Continue sucking until he comes. A lot of men love it when you swallow, but he may also want to ejaculate on your body.

30Aug/090

Small Penis

My penis is really, REALLY SMALL, and I am afraid that when time comes for me to have sex with my girlfriend, she will just laugh, and then dump me for being really small. What can I do?!?!??!

What can you do? There is only one option. Tell her.

You can't know until you try. Worst case is that you will get laughed at and/or she will dump you. Best case is that she won't care what size you are. You won't find out unless you talk to her.

ruler

The question : Does size matter?
The answer: Yes. But....

But... not to all women. Some women are "size queens" and size is of vital importance. Other women are far more concerned about technique or foreplay or simply personality.

I don't know what you mean by REALLY small. Average is 5" to 6". Small would be below 5" and REALLY small would be below 4". In my mind at any rate. Size is also in the eyes of the beholder. If your girlfriend is a virgin or has only been with lesser endowed men then she won't be put off.

Also, woman's vagina's vary in size too. Some women want a smaller penis as larger ones hurt them.

Good luck.

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30Jul/090

Anal Sex Convincing?

How do I convince my wife to agree to anal sex?

My advice would be to ask her. Tell her that you think that it is really hot and you will make sure that you don’t hurt her. Make sure that she is completely relaxed. Maybe have a couple glasses of wine. If she is not relaxed it will hurt her. Make sure that you prepare her by inserting a finger or two into her anus. Use lubrication, it helps. You can use something like KY Jelly or lotion. Very slowly put your penis into your anus and tell her that if at any time she feels too uncomfortable that you will stop.

As a side note, do not pull your penis all the way out and then reinsert it fully again. This is a little painful. Good luck.

Update: From Askmen.com

Because anal sex feels good

Women love anal sex because it can feel absolutely incredible. It's different in sensation and it doesn’t feel like anything else she may have felt before -- it's deep inside, it's not her clitoris and is not in her vagina, but feels strangely like both in a sort of mixed-up combination in another part of her body. The rectum, once it’s ready, literally swallows the penis up and can’t get enough. The back passage transforms itself into a sexual playground. If the clitoris and/or vagina are stimulated while you are inside of her, it can take her to another sexual realm. Anal orgasms are possible.

28Jul/090

Am I Gay?

I like things inserted into my anus. Am I gay?

Definitely not. Many men enjoy having things put into their anus. The prostate, located inside your anal cavity, is very sensitive and sexually arousing when stimulated. There is no need to feel shame about this. It is completely normal. Unless you want to put another man’s penis in your anus, you are not gay.

Bottoms Up Silicone "Please My P-Spot" Details

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Now men can have body-quaking orgasms! Many men report harder erections and similar sexual satisfaction after massaging their prostate or P Spot™ –– and you can, too! Lube up this 6 1/4" long, 1" wide ergonomic wonder up and slip it inside. Silicone feels so good and is easy to clean. Add to the stimulation with a 7x-speed vibrating egg that fits inside the handle, sending vibrations deep into your prostate! Waterproof. Uses 2 AA batteries (sold separately).

The "P Spot" is for men what the G Spot is for women. A cluster of very sensitive nerve endings, that when stimulated, usually with an adult sex toy, can lead to some of the most intense orgasms you can have. For a man, that means the service of an anal sex toy is necessary –– and "Please My P Spot" is your ticket to paradise!

Silicone is a superior, more durable and hygienic material for any sex toy, anal or otherwise. Use water-based Adam & Eve sex lube whenever you plan on anal sex toy or vibrator use. As your body grabs onto the butt toy, sensations ripple throughout your genital area.

Add to the already pleasurable sensations by inserting the waterproof bullet vibrator. The vibrator's remote control has seven levels and patterns of vibrations to send through your prostate. You won't believe how hard you'll come.

The prostate stimulator is easier to clean if you first slip a condom over it, then lube the condom. When you're done, just remove the condom and your sex toy is as good as new.

Clean with warm water and mild dish soap, then pat dry and let it air dry thoroughly. You can also use Adam & Eve sex toy cleaner.

Batteries in the controller can be changed by unscrewing the cap in the base. Be sure to leave the "o" ring where it is –– this keeps the unit waterproof. Insert 2 AA batteries with plus "+" and minus "-" sides up as indicated inside.

When you use prostate stimulation alone or especially with a partner, get set from some fireworks! It's way more than just an anal dildo!

23Jul/090

I'm Leaking!

I have a question which is always disturbing me. Every time my penis get erected, is always come out a little fluid. The color crystal white like crazy glue. So basically my penis always get a little wet after couple minutes. My question is this normal? How can I stop this fluid?

Sweetie, this is entirely normal. It's called pre-cum. It's one of the best parts of sex. It means that your cock is ready for action. Take advantage of that lubrication and have your partner or yourself use it as lube to spend some time with the head of your penis, It's nature's lubricant and there is nothing abnormal about it. Love it!

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13Jul/090

Assessing Possible STD's

A couple months ago, I noticed that the shaft of my penis beside the head and the foreskin around it became red, irritated, itchy, and it has some small spots on it. Sometimes there is no pain; other times it feels warm or just during intercourse it becomes very itchy and a bit painful. Is it some kind of allergy? Or it could be some kind of herpes infection?

I am very shy to visit my doctor.

Any advice?

A

Dear A,

Get to the doctor! This is a serious matter on many levels:

#1) Your health; and #2) The unfair possibility that you are likely passing on an STD to your partner.

Embarrassment IS NOT an option! You don’t have to visit your regular practitioner; any professional will do. Just get over it and take care of yourself. If not properly diagnosed and treated, your condition will only get worse and the likelihood of (unfairly) passing on a disease to one (or more) unsuspecting partners is unacceptable.

Hope this helps.

N-A