Nancy-Ann advice on sex, love and erotic enhancements

29Nov/090

Vemma + Serogen = :)

Dear Nancy,

For the last 6 months my husband has been a regular user of the Serogen supplement that you recommend so highly for male orgasm enhancement.  I must say it's been fun.  John's confidence in bed, which wasn't lacking in the first place, has skyrocketed because now he feels like his old porno hero, Peter North.

I'm not writing about Serogen though, I wanted to tell you about Vemma, which is a product I've been marketing as a side job to make a little extra cash ever since the economy took a nosedive.  Vemma is basically a mega multi-vitamin and mineral supplement in a liquid delivery format.  Meaning, it's a juice rather than a horse-pill.  I've been drinking and selling Vemma since the summer and it's become an essential part of my healthy living routine.  Drinking it gave me more energy, which I've been able to put towards working and working out harder and it cleared up my allergies which enabled me to be more active in the Spring instead of hiding indoors from pollen.  Other members in my network swear it's not only cleared up their allergies but also credit it for lower cholesterol and even speeding up cancer recovery time.

Obviously I recommended it to John.  After a week of taking both the Vemma supplement AND the Serogen supplement... well... let's just say I've created a monster.  In bed.  John's energy and stamina is insane.  I don't think I'd be able to keep up if I weren't energized myself.

Something this great I felt I needed to share.  Of course I told my network of Vemma drinkers but I wanted to share with those who take Serogen as well.  I hope you don't mind the shameless plug but if you could tell your readers... I would be grateful.  I can be reached at info@vemmalarevolution.com

Thanks.

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Susan

4Sep/090

Speak Up!

Nancy-Ann,

My girlfriend and I have been together for about 3 years and I have no problem getting her to achieve orgasm. But she is never very vocal during sex, which makes me feel like it’s not big enough. I've talked to her about getting penis enlargement pills but she says that it would only make the sex bad. Should I try to secretly increase my size with pills? And why is she not vocal when we have sex?

BH - Via the Internet

BH,

Why is it you equate your girlfriend not being vocal during sex with your penis size and your self-perception of its (inadequate) measurement? Maybe she's just not an openly vocal person when it comes to sex. Not all women are. Many feel embarrassed to hear themselves out loud. Some prefer to be in their heads and bodies instead of being overly, verbally demonstrative.

It seems your girlfriend is perfectly satisfied with your size and technique; I mean, you say she reaches orgasm, right? So what's the problem with your size? This seems like an issue of inadequacy conjured solely in your mind.

Instead of talking to her about getting enlargement pills, why not talk to her about how much of a turn-on it would be if she could tell you (aloud) how it feels while you're getting her off?

Hope this helps.

N-A

28Aug/090

The Ropes

This is just one of a bunch of letters I've been receiving lately from my female readers. You may have spotted it in some of the adult magazines, as I've been circulating it around to all the editors I know. It's about a sexual enhancement that is getting a lot of buzz...

Nancy, my boyfriend has always been able to satisfy me sexually. With an ample cock-size, average endurance, and creative oral technique, he almost never fails to get me off. But what I experienced the night he returned home from a business trip in Europe was the surprise of my life—a fucking I will never forget, and an orgasm that no man before him has ever come close to equaling. Since I love to suck cock, the second my boyfriend dropped his luggage I stripped off his clothes and proceeded to please him with my best welcome-home blow job.

Before long my wet mouth had him pumping gob after hot gob down my throat and on my face. With a fistful of throbbing cock, I held on for dear life as he unloaded his sweet jism; these were "power throbs" that kept launching massive amounts of come. I've never seen anything like it—a man having a multiple! I was so totally turned on being nearly drowned with his super-human load. And it didn't stop there! He stayed erect, throwing me down on the floor and pounding my twat until we both had simultaneous, earth-shattering orgasms, practically causing both of us to pass out. The rest of the evening and throughout the week we fucked ourselves into a frenzy; his recovery time between these super-charged orgasms was that of a teenage boy.

Since that mind-blowing night, all I can think of is sucking and fucking my new "power lover" all hours of the day and night. Finally, curiosity got the best of me, so I asked what had turned him into such a fuck machine. His answer: He had learned "The Ropes."

Turns out my boyfriend had spent an evening in Europe with a Swedish nutritionist and his wife of 20 years. The couple was openly sexual and couldn't keep their hands off each other, so my boyfriend asked them their secret. The nutritionist explained he regularly took a natural supplement, and gave my boyfriend about a month's supply, telling him it would teach him "the ropes" of great sex.

The supply is about to run out, and we want to know where we can buy this incredible enhancement. Do you know if this product is available in the States?

Rebecca M.

San Diego , CA

Rebecca, as I've been informing readers, I do know all about what your last boyfriend used to enhance his orgasms. I'm happy to report that across the U.S. and Canada more and more men are finding out and using this unique supplement, learning that not only do they themselves benefit sexually, so too do their partners.

serogenThe physical contractions and fluid release during male orgasm can be multiplied and more sensitized using an all-natural product called Serogen. Although formulated to trigger stronger, longer orgasmic experiences in men by strengthening the prostate gland, an added bonus of using Serogen—from a woman's perspective—is that these powerful, added contractions men achieve while in the throes of an orgasm can induce an intense, simultaneous female climax.

Moreover, the term "ropes" Rebecca mentions in her letter is actually common European slang for the added contractions and heightened release that cause these rope-like sensations during male orgasm.

As far as finding this enhancement in the States, I know of just one importer - somalab.net.

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23Aug/090

Serogen or Ogoplex?

I'm trying to decide which product is best in producing the "ropes". I am so tired of false adds. Serogen or Ogoplex?

Can you help?

I'll be honest: Of all the bogus herbal sexual enhancers and performance boosters currently available, including the male orgasm enhancers, I endorse Serogen. Put it this way: If you are among the 35% of men that can breakdown and absorb "defined" pollen, you should see a difference.

As is always the case with these types of all-natural supplements, keep in mind results vary depending on an individual's genetics, age, and lifestyle.

serogenIf you take a peek at the product review section posted on my Web page (http://www.nancy-ann.com/product-reviews/), you can read why I've critiqued the products in the order listed: It's simple ... company credibility! Somalab appears to be (from what I researched) the first stateside distributor of Serogen (which contains Cernate, the supplement's potent formula of pure Swedish pollen extract). I also base my comments on the fact that Somalab has its own toll-free customer-care line where you can call and speak to an actual human with a name (most all the other distributors of similar products are strictly online-only entities!).

Ditto goes for Somalab confidently listing on its literature and Web site (see www.somalab.net) an actual physical postal address that IS NOT an anonymous P.O. box! These obvious clues prove the company must be registered to do business in the state in which it resides.

Buyer Beware: Always look for giveaways such as a telephone contact and/or an actual land address when shopping on the Web. This holds true for EVERYTHING from herbal sexual enhancers to car stereos. Think about it: would you willingly give out your personal details and credit card information to an anonymous entity that cannot be contacted by phone or reached by certified mail?

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21Aug/091

Bigger Cock, Louder Sex?

My girlfriend and I have been together for about three years and I have no problem getting her to achieve orgasm, but she is never very vocal during sex, which makes me feel like it’s not big enough. I’ve talked to her about getting penis enlargement pills, but she says that’s a bad idea. Should I try to secretly increase the size with pills? And why is she not vocal when we have sex?

pumpFirst off, I would not try secretly increasing the size of your penis. The pills that you see advertised everywhere do not work. They are a waste of money. Secondly, your girlfriend not being vocal during sex probably has nothing to do with the size of your penis. Women are often quite shy about making a lot of noise while they are having sex. Are you very vocal during sex? This is the place to start. Show her how sexy you think it is to show how turned on you are. Try talking dirty. Tell her exactly what you are going to do to her. Talk to her while you do it. Ask her what she likes. Ask her what she wants. Make her feel comfortable and unembarrassed about making noise. I bet it’ll make a big difference.
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20Aug/090

Hope for the uncut?

Is there anyway to make a penis bigger and longer if the penis isn't circumcises yet?

Does the skin cause a problem with becoming fully erect?

Also, every time I have sex with my wife, I don't last long, I orgasm before my wife. I've tried condoms, delay cream, and masturbating before having sex. It's not working.

Is there anyway to hold orgasm a little bit longer ?

MICHELANGELO'S DAVIDHaving your foreskin still has nothing to do with the length and size of your penis. If anything, the foreskin increases sensation. This helps the penis get as long as thick and as hard as possible. Removal of your foreskin would not have any benefit at all in regards to the size of your penis.

There are a few things that you can try to help you wait to cum. My first suggestion would be to slow your breathing while you are having sex. If you can slow your rhythm down, it can help delay orgasm. Instead of shallow and fast breaths, breath deeply and slowly. You can also practice holding off cumming by taking your time masturbating. Slowly get yourself as hard as you can. Take your time working yourself into a complete erection. Do not ejaculate. Let the erection go down a bit. Start over again. See how long you can keep yourself hard and aroused without ejaculating. Finally, let yourself ejaculate. This will help extend how long it takes for you to cum.

Finally, you can also arouse your girlfriend until she is just about to cum, either with you mouth or hands, and then have sex with her. Or let her cum first and then you can try to make her cum again with your penis.

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17Aug/090

No Morning O's

Why is it that most of the times we have sex in the morning I very rarely have an orgasm, but any other time of day it's usually not a problem?

The reason that it is sometimes difficult for women to achieve orgasms in the a.m. is that our hormone levels are the lowest in the morning and the highest at night. It is, however, the opposite for men. My suggestion would be that you try some extended and slow foreplay. The morning might be the time for you to bring out the sex toys. Try having your partner perform oral sex. It's a great way to start your day, but you might have to put in a little bit of extra time.

11Aug/090

Mystery Fluid

The last time my lady and I got together we had great sex; before we fucked I licked her clit for a while. After we were finished, she told me she felt a little bit of fluid release. But I didn't experience anything noticeable. Since she has never had an orgasm I'm assuming she wouldn't really know what climaxing would feel like, let alone an orgasm that releases ejaculate. Also, I've never made a woman squirt before, but I wish I could. Do you have any improvement tips on cunnilingus or advice on technique to push her to have an orgasm?

Taylor L. - Los Angeles , CA

Statistics say that 75% of all women cannot have an orgasm through intercourse, but ... 95% of all woman can orgasm through oral sex. There are some women who are not sure if they have ever had an orgasm; some are afraid to have an orgasm. It is important for your partner to relax, know that she is safe, and that you won't judge her on how she reacts when she finally does have one. Some women will not allow themselves a chance to orgasm due to the fact they think they might not be able to control their bladder. Your partner may not have had an orgasm at all, but rather urinated a bit because she lost some control. Although this may seem gross, it is perfectly natural.

When you are being oral, be very patient. Do not rush things. Mix it up. Lick and tongue her vaginal lips and use your tongue like a little penis. Females tend to have two g-spots: the clitoris, and about three inches inside and up. Next time, try teasing her orally. Build it up some, licking and kissing her inner thighs, and possibly using a toy inside of her. Try making eye contact too. Erotic words can also increase one's pleasure tremendously. Most importantly, keep communication open before, during, and after any sexual act.

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7Aug/090

First Orgasm

I received these two questions back to back about first orgasms.

I'm afraid when I actually do have my first orgasm I will pee on my boyfriend.
Is there any way to control your bladder without hindering an orgasm?
Also, what should I suggest for him to do to give me an orgasm so I don't disappoint him?

Thanks!


My girlfriend and I have been together for three years, we love being intimate whenever we get together, which isn’t very often. So far we've only had oral sex and she claims to love it, unfortunately to my undying shame I haven't been able to make her cum. I'd give anything to make her orgasm so my question was this: on my most recent oral expedition, she got really into it... I thought she was going to orgasm but she eventually calmed down and told me she wasn't sure if she wanted to keep going. She told me later she felt like she was going to pee, since she's never had an orgasm before, she wasn’t sure if that’s what it really was so I told her and showed her an article, that it is normal to experience this sensation. Fortunately I think that she's over that fear now just because she wants to have an orgasm, but our method is usually me licking her clit and fingering her, which leads me to my question: if she gets to that point again, should I keep fingering her or should I pull my finger, will it matter whether it delays her orgasm? I've noticed in some movies that the stars stop altogether when the girl is having an orgasm, do girls prefer this or does it vary? What should I do when she's getting ready to reach that almighty point?

Don't worry, it's very, very rare that an accident like that would happen during orgasm, though you may occasionally feel the sensation of having to pee right before! But if it's something you're concerned about, simply go to the bathroom before sex. As a side note, urinating before and after sex is highly recommended to avoid nasty little bladder infections.

Getting Off
As for how to have an orgasm - it concerned me a little that you're worried about having one so as not to disappoint him. Make sure that you focus on your own pleasure and satisfaction as well. Find out what you enjoy so that YOU are not disappointed.

That said, a little exploration will go a long way! Spend time touching yourself to discover what works for you. Hard, fast, soft, slow, here or there? Invest in some toys and then bring your boyfriend into the mix. Tell him what you found out you enjoy.

A good and considerate lover will be open to communication, and will be willing to work with you to find what gets you off. Very, very few women are able to reach orgasm from penetration/sex alone - it will probably require a combination of oral/manual stimulation. Most importantly, focus on finding what feels good and don't stress over the orgasm immediately. The more you think about it, the harder and less fun it will be!

Good luck, be safe, and have fun!

5Aug/090

Contradictory Claims

Nancy-Ann,

I have seen so many contradictory claims on various Web sites I have visited regarding Serogen, Ogoplex, Ropex, and others. I have yet to find any quantitative information on purity and dose of the active ingredients in any orgasm enhancers.

It would be nice to see fully documented and quantitative reports on "double blind" tests of the effectiveness of any sex enhancing product versus placebo in clinical trials. The ideal test would be where two groups are .selected one using the product and the other using sugar pills for a month or two or whatever and documenting quantitatively the sex frequency numbers, length of orgasm, rope count and recovery time for multiple orgasms. Then the rolls of the two groups are reversed and the test is repeated so that offset bias between the two groups is removed. Then the test could also compare effectiveness between different products, document the results and give product ingredient quantitative information so that the consumer can objectively compare them.

Is such data available? Could you forward it to me via email? If not could you give me a referral or point of contact for such data?

Don

There are a few clinical studies on cernitin (which is a generic form of the most popular Swedish flower pollen) and various groups of men with either benign prostate problems or sperm mobility issues. None I could find on the sexual effects of standardized pollen. My thinking is there would never be any UNBIASED studies comparing this type of sexual enhancer (the main reason it costs money for a third party to accomplish such a "scientific" task). Reviews on each product could be conducted, of course (and they are), but they are entirely biased and ultimately cannot be substantiated. I say this because all men are different and the end result is based on what each individual's "ideal" of just what and how much was "enhanced." (It's not much different as reading a wide variety of largely differing movie reviews: They are based on the critics "idea" of what they thought about the same movie.

I know because I conducted my first product review on male orgasm enhancers (click on my "product review" link). As you'll see, the reviews are based on the legitimacy of the distributors themselves, customer care, pricing, packaging and quantity (which, I've found, most always reflects the quality of the products sold).

Finding a group of men, having them try each product for a month, letting them cycle off for a month, then onto the next, and so on and so forth ... would take considerable time and effort for all parties involved. And still it would biased by a myriad amount of variables (one of which I mentioned above). Gathering all the products and having a third-party laboratory break down each formula in order to find which herbal amalgamation is superior, is, as I mentioned, is simply too expensive.