Sexy Nose
While making a love, I have to kiss a woman's nose. I can only have a relationship with a woman only if she has certain shaped nose. Luckily I have partner who does not mind this behavior during sex. Is this normal?
It is totally normal. You have a fetish for noses. A fetish is the displacement of sexual desire and fantasy onto alternative objects or body parts that aren't related to sex (feet, noses, ears, etc.) Your partner is okay with your fetish, so I would not worry about it. Get some.
Different Sex Drives
The issue I have involves my wife and me. It seems like as time progresses my sex drive has increased when my wife's has taken a nose dive and continues diving. When we first met it was anytime, anyplace. Now we're lucky to have sex twice a month and those two times it seems like I'm the only one there. She has actually fallen asleep while I was going down on her! I have read so many books and articles on this subject, even tried movies and toys but nothing is working. If it is brought up in discussion it always turns into a huge argument. She no longer initiates sex or wants to change positions during sex. It's just like as long as I don't move her from her back or wake her up it's okay. I don't know what to do. I love my wife with all of my heart and I don't want this to be an issue but I miss making love to her. Please help.
This is a really common problem that most long-term couples have. It is not necessarily a reflection of whether or not your relationship is at, but rather just a natural fact that people become accustomed to one another.
Have you asked your wife how she is feeling about herself? Does she know how much you want her? Not just her body, but how important she is to you? No amount of trying to spice things up can replace the basics of bringing romance and desire into your relationship. Try spending what her idea of a perfect day is whether her. Go back to the beginning, and try courting her again. Let her remember why she fell in love with you, and my bet would be that the sex will follow. Let her know how much you still want her, and not just for your own gratification. Let her know that you want the union that you had in the beginning. Spicing things up isn't always the answer.
Sometimes it is going back to the basics of affection rather than sexuality. Try massages that don't necessarily lead to sex. Eventually they will. I know it is a difficult and frustrating road, but she may not being having a problem with you, rather herself. Start by rebuilding what you have between the two of you that exists outside of sex.
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