Retrograde Ejaculation
Dear Nancy-Ann, I have no problem getting an erection. As a matter of fact I can get it up everyday if necessary. My problem is with ejaculation. My girlfriend loves oral sex and isn't satisfied unless I come in her mouth. She wants to swallow as much of my semen as she can get but the problem is she is not getting any because when I climax there is no semen pumping out of my penis.
My penis throbs like I was going to come but no semen. All my climaxes have been dry runs. What is my problem and will any of the Serogen products work for me?
Bobby
Well Bobby, let me first say I don’t know who I envy more, you or girlfriend. A partner who’s willing AND able is every girls wish. As for your lack of ejaculate during climax, that may be potentially more serious. It sounds like what you are experiencing is a condition called retrograde ejaculation. The causes range from diabetes, BPH, side effects of certain prescription meds, or the results of surgical procedures. I am not a doctor, so please don’t take this as a professional diagnosis!! Get to a doctor.
I am an outspoken believer in the beneficial qualities of Serogen, as it promotes overall prostate health. In your case, I suggest you consult a urologist as soon as possible to get your condition diagnosed correctly so you then find out from a professional what your options are.
Two-Pump Chump
Dear Nancy:
I'll get right to the point. I'm a two-pump chump. I need help. I've tried several techniques exorcises and supplements. I'm recently divorced and would like to play the field before I settle down again, but the return rate is not so good because of this. I would really love to give them orgasms by penetration instead of orally or manually. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.
Less F.- Hotmail
Hmmm. A two-pump chump. Some of the obvious cures: Masturbate prior to having sex with your lady. Can't hurt to try: There's also "delay" creams available for men in your predicament, which helps desensitize the nerve endings in the tissue of skin around shaft and head of penis. One I know of off-hand is Doc Johnsons Power Delay Cream. 
I don't know how effective this particular product is, but is one of many of this type of product. Doc Johnsons just happens to be a name I know of.
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Speak Up!
Nancy-Ann,
My girlfriend and I have been together for about 3 years and I have no problem getting her to achieve orgasm. But she is never very vocal during sex, which makes me feel like it’s not big enough. I've talked to her about getting penis enlargement pills but she says that it would only make the sex bad. Should I try to secretly increase my size with pills? And why is she not vocal when we have sex?
BH - Via the Internet
BH,
Why is it you equate your girlfriend not being vocal during sex with your penis size and your self-perception of its (inadequate) measurement? Maybe she's just not an openly vocal person when it comes to sex. Not all women are. Many feel embarrassed to hear themselves out loud. Some prefer to be in their heads and bodies instead of being overly, verbally demonstrative.
It seems your girlfriend is perfectly satisfied with your size and technique; I mean, you say she reaches orgasm, right? So what's the problem with your size? This seems like an issue of inadequacy conjured solely in your mind.
Instead of talking to her about getting enlargement pills, why not talk to her about how much of a turn-on it would be if she could tell you (aloud) how it feels while you're getting her off?
Hope this helps.
N-A
Touchy, Tickley Situation
Dear Nancy:
My girlfriend has a very sensitive clit and it is so hard giving her oral sex. She says it hurts sometimes or it tickles too much. Can you give me any advice on what I need to do? Oral sex is one of my favorite things and its not working out.
E.S. - Via Internet
This is a "touchy" situation! Hmmm. The best way to approach her is to be verbally open, first and foremost, letting her know how important it is to please her orally. Then ... first step: warm her up with a bunch of foreplay. Next step: Let her touch herself while your mug is down in the area to be sucked. Let her allow herself to get excited and "loose" ... talk it out. This can be very sexy! Then let her guide first your fingers, then mouth and tongue, gently (tell her to keep an open dialogue the whole while).
With this type of approach, you hope that she becomes comfortable. If you're both patient enough, it will happen and the rewards will be unforgettable!
Last note: Do you have a beard or mustache? Chin spinach can be abrasive and uncomfortable. Even a light but coarse five-o'clock shadow can make for a tickle.
Hope this helps.
N-A
The Ropes
This is just one of a bunch of letters I've been receiving lately from my female readers. You may have spotted it in some of the adult magazines, as I've been circulating it around to all the editors I know. It's about a sexual enhancement that is getting a lot of buzz...
Nancy, my boyfriend has always been able to satisfy me sexually. With an ample cock-size, average endurance, and creative oral technique, he almost never fails to get me off. But what I experienced the night he returned home from a business trip in Europe was the surprise of my life—a fucking I will never forget, and an orgasm that no man before him has ever come close to equaling. Since I love to suck cock, the second my boyfriend dropped his luggage I stripped off his clothes and proceeded to please him with my best welcome-home blow job.
Before long my wet mouth had him pumping gob after hot gob down my throat and on my face. With a fistful of throbbing cock, I held on for dear life as he unloaded his sweet jism; these were "power throbs" that kept launching massive amounts of come. I've never seen anything like it—a man having a multiple! I was so totally turned on being nearly drowned with his super-human load. And it didn't stop there! He stayed erect, throwing me down on the floor and pounding my twat until we both had simultaneous, earth-shattering orgasms, practically causing both of us to pass out. The rest of the evening and throughout the week we fucked ourselves into a frenzy; his recovery time between these super-charged orgasms was that of a teenage boy.
Since that mind-blowing night, all I can think of is sucking and fucking my new "power lover" all hours of the day and night. Finally, curiosity got the best of me, so I asked what had turned him into such a fuck machine. His answer: He had learned "The Ropes."
Turns out my boyfriend had spent an evening in Europe with a Swedish nutritionist and his wife of 20 years. The couple was openly sexual and couldn't keep their hands off each other, so my boyfriend asked them their secret. The nutritionist explained he regularly took a natural supplement, and gave my boyfriend about a month's supply, telling him it would teach him "the ropes" of great sex.
The supply is about to run out, and we want to know where we can buy this incredible enhancement. Do you know if this product is available in the States?
Rebecca M.
San Diego , CA
Rebecca, as I've been informing readers, I do know all about what your last boyfriend used to enhance his orgasms. I'm happy to report that across the U.S. and Canada more and more men are finding out and using this unique supplement, learning that not only do they themselves benefit sexually, so too do their partners.
The physical contractions and fluid release during male orgasm can be multiplied and more sensitized using an all-natural product called Serogen. Although formulated to trigger stronger, longer orgasmic experiences in men by strengthening the prostate gland, an added bonus of using Serogen—from a woman's perspective—is that these powerful, added contractions men achieve while in the throes of an orgasm can induce an intense, simultaneous female climax.
Moreover, the term "ropes" Rebecca mentions in her letter is actually common European slang for the added contractions and heightened release that cause these rope-like sensations during male orgasm.
As far as finding this enhancement in the States, I know of just one importer - somalab.net.
Hairless and Smooth
Nancy, I need help! My boyfriend wants my pubic area to look like the girls in Hustler. You know, the ones that are absolutely hairless and smooth. I have tried shaving, waxing, and creams. Nothing makes me look like THAT! Please help.
Please let your boyfriend know that those perfectly smooth, bald and beautiful-pussied women in the slick adult magazine spreads are treated to a $100 professional "Brazilian" (pussy to ass!) wax before their photo shoot, and whatever wax marks that might be left over as well as other natural skin imperfections are then AIRBRUSHED to perfection!
Believe me, pussy care is a very involved procedure (as you know), and if you are not a full-time adult entertainer or a nude model (whose career depends on a perfect pussy), there simply is not enough time in your day or money on your wallet to keep your beaver trimmed EXACTLY the way HE wants it trimmed.
Try this: Plan to get a professional Brazilian wax (preferably at the end of a week or before you are both going away on vacation, or to a wedding, a party, etc.) and let him PAY for it, explaining that if he wants it perfectly bald and beautiful he must cough up the dough. His reward: An all-access pass to his lady's lovely manicured pussy that he helped maintain. Your reward: A weekend of him giving you and your pussy his undivided tongue and dick attention. You will find that you'll feel sexier, and you'll both have something to look forward to ... each time he pays for you to go to " Brazil."
Erectile Dysfunction
Nancy, could you explain me details about erection dysfunctions? How does it happen and how to cure it?
There are a lot of physical and psychological causes of erectile dysfunction. Reduced blood flow to the penis and nerve damage are the most common physical causes. Underlying conditions related to erectile dysfunction include the following:
Vascular disease- Diabetes
- Drugs
- Hormone disorders
- Neurologic conditions
- Pelvic trauma, surgery, radiation therapy
- Peyronie's disease
- Venous leak
- Psychological conditions
So, it is always my advice that you see a doctor first, so you can narrow down why you are having erectile dysfunction. As far as treatment for erectile dysfunction:
Sex Therapy
A significant number of men develop impotence from psychological causes that can be overcome.
Medical Treatment
- Oral Medications like Viagra or Levitra.
- Self-Injection to produce erections for about a half-hour.
- Penis pumps can help produce erections in men who are already able to get a semi.
I hope this helps. My first advice is to see a professional to understand why the erectile dysfunction is occurring.
Cyber Sex
Hey there Nancy, got a question for you. I've been with my girlfriend for oh....almost four and a half years now. I am very attracted to her, but when it comes to getting some well....She's not always as excited as me! She's been on vacation all this week, kicking it at home and relaxing you know? Well, I snooped a little and I found out she has herself signed up for "cyber sex" on a COUPLE of different adult web sites!
Needless to say I was pissed, but I couldn't tell her I went snooping, you know? So my question is this. Since I'm not getting any, do you think she may possibing having these little conversations or chat sessions and getting her action that way? Should I be upset if she IS talking dirty with other people? Im stumped here and I just don't really know how to feel about this. I love her and I want to get my groove on, but she's just.....I don't know.
This is a sticky situation, but you absolutely should confront her. Yes, it's wrong to snoop, but... it's not a black and white situation. However, you did find something upsetting, she's been lying to you, and you need to talk about it. Open the conversation by telling her the lack of sex has been bothering you, and that you snooped (tell her what you told me - you felt bad about it, but...) and what you found. See what she has to say.
In this day and age, cyber sex and chats, etc are getting to be a big problem for many people and for many it's not clearly defined. I've had this conversation with my boyfriend and we've defined what is and is not acceptable. For me, it's cheating. Anything that he would not tell me about is probably crossing the line. To be fair, if you haven't defined what makes you uncomfortable or what crosses the line for you, give her a chance to talk about it. But once you tell her it's unacceptable to you, if she won't respect that or disagrees, you'll have to think about what that means for you. A good test is that if you hide it from your partner, you shouldn't be doing it.
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Here at the Nancy-Ann office we see a lot of porn. I personally like the style and content of a few sites. Here is a young woman from FemJoy.com. Feel free to send me a comment if there is something else you would like to see.
For the reason we chose Eufrat's "Indian Summer" as this week's Best Of series, you need only look so far as the comments of our members:
Eufrat, all I can say is WOW!!! What a heart stopping experience it would be to be lucky enough to be there beside you!!! Need I say more?! It is cold shower time!!!
No question, this is one helluva lot of woman here. I've always liked fleshed-out women who maintain a well-rounded body with no spare tires, and Eufrat is a classic example of the type. Toned and well-fed, that's a delicate balance, and Eufrat does it in spades. I am among those who like a lot of rear elevation views, as long as they are offset by a good number of frontal- and side shots as this one is. Nice work, Demian, and kudos to you and to Eufrat!
OMG... I sure liked her sexy natural look on the first photo sets, but she's getting better and hotter with every set... Keep her coming!
Eufrat does it to me like very few women alive. Those breasts are so absurdly pretty, and she has hips and thighs and a very soft belly...one of the most enticing models in the world today. An absolute sex bomb. I love her, and thank you for presenting her, in such an explicit but not vulgar way. Which is kind of what you guys are famous for, right?
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