Contradictory Claims
Nancy-Ann,
I have seen so many contradictory claims on various Web sites I have visited regarding Serogen, Ogoplex, Ropex, and others. I have yet to find any quantitative information on purity and dose of the active ingredients in any orgasm enhancers.
It would be nice to see fully documented and quantitative reports on "double blind" tests of the effectiveness of any sex enhancing product versus placebo in clinical trials. The ideal test would be where two groups are .selected one using the product and the other using sugar pills for a month or two or whatever and documenting quantitatively the sex frequency numbers, length of orgasm, rope count and recovery time for multiple orgasms. Then the rolls of the two groups are reversed and the test is repeated so that offset bias between the two groups is removed. Then the test could also compare effectiveness between different products, document the results and give product ingredient quantitative information so that the consumer can objectively compare them.
Is such data available? Could you forward it to me via email? If not could you give me a referral or point of contact for such data?
Don
There are a few clinical studies on cernitin (which is a generic form of the most popular Swedish flower pollen) and various groups of men with either benign prostate problems or sperm mobility issues. None I could find on the sexual effects of standardized pollen. My thinking is there would never be any UNBIASED studies comparing this type of sexual enhancer (the main reason it costs money for a third party to accomplish such a "scientific" task). Reviews on each product could be conducted, of course (and they are), but they are entirely biased and ultimately cannot be substantiated. I say this because all men are different and the end result is based on what each individual's "ideal" of just what and how much was "enhanced." (It's not much different as reading a wide variety of largely differing movie reviews: They are based on the critics "idea" of what they thought about the same movie.
I know because I conducted my first product review on male orgasm enhancers (click on my "product review" link). As you'll see, the reviews are based on the legitimacy of the distributors themselves, customer care, pricing, packaging and quantity (which, I've found, most always reflects the quality of the products sold).
Finding a group of men, having them try each product for a month, letting them cycle off for a month, then onto the next, and so on and so forth ... would take considerable time and effort for all parties involved. And still it would biased by a myriad amount of variables (one of which I mentioned above). Gathering all the products and having a third-party laboratory break down each formula in order to find which herbal amalgamation is superior, is, as I mentioned, is simply too expensive.
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After Baby
I am a 30 year old guy. My girlfriend of 3 years and I have a 7 month old son together. Before the baby we had a good sex life and now if we have sex once a month we just have it because we did not have sex. When I try to get things started it is "I am tired" or "I have a headache" or she just doesn't want to. What should I do about this? I love my girl very much and I just can't handle this for much longer.
I know it's difficult when it seems like the passion has left a relationship. As your relationship has changed with the arrival of a child, perhaps you try changing up some of your sex techniques. Find out what really turns your girlfriend on. Try some new things. Think about what really makes you hot and let her know. Routine can often make things dull ... remember that. You may try using some sex toys or porno. There is nothing wrong with stepping outside of your normal activities. Try to reconnect sexually by finding out exactly what your girlfriend wants from you and the give it to her.


