Earth Shattering BJ
I just have a simple question. How do you give an earth-shattering blow-job to your boyfriend?
Every man likes different things when it comes to getting a blow-job, but I can give you the basics of an amazing blow-job. First cup his balls with one hand and take his entire penis into your mouth. Get him wet by pulling your tongue and lips from the base of his penis to the head. Hold the shaft of his penis in your hand and lick the head like you are licking an ice cream cone. Alternate this with sucking his penis as far into your mouth as you can. Often the combination of a hand-job at the base of the penis and a good wet suction at the head will help him come. Continue sucking until he comes. A lot of men love it when you swallow, but he may also want to ejaculate on your body.
The Ropes
This is just one of a bunch of letters I've been receiving lately from my female readers. You may have spotted it in some of the adult magazines, as I've been circulating it around to all the editors I know. It's about a sexual enhancement that is getting a lot of buzz...
Nancy, my boyfriend has always been able to satisfy me sexually. With an ample cock-size, average endurance, and creative oral technique, he almost never fails to get me off. But what I experienced the night he returned home from a business trip in Europe was the surprise of my life—a fucking I will never forget, and an orgasm that no man before him has ever come close to equaling. Since I love to suck cock, the second my boyfriend dropped his luggage I stripped off his clothes and proceeded to please him with my best welcome-home blow job.
Before long my wet mouth had him pumping gob after hot gob down my throat and on my face. With a fistful of throbbing cock, I held on for dear life as he unloaded his sweet jism; these were "power throbs" that kept launching massive amounts of come. I've never seen anything like it—a man having a multiple! I was so totally turned on being nearly drowned with his super-human load. And it didn't stop there! He stayed erect, throwing me down on the floor and pounding my twat until we both had simultaneous, earth-shattering orgasms, practically causing both of us to pass out. The rest of the evening and throughout the week we fucked ourselves into a frenzy; his recovery time between these super-charged orgasms was that of a teenage boy.
Since that mind-blowing night, all I can think of is sucking and fucking my new "power lover" all hours of the day and night. Finally, curiosity got the best of me, so I asked what had turned him into such a fuck machine. His answer: He had learned "The Ropes."
Turns out my boyfriend had spent an evening in Europe with a Swedish nutritionist and his wife of 20 years. The couple was openly sexual and couldn't keep their hands off each other, so my boyfriend asked them their secret. The nutritionist explained he regularly took a natural supplement, and gave my boyfriend about a month's supply, telling him it would teach him "the ropes" of great sex.
The supply is about to run out, and we want to know where we can buy this incredible enhancement. Do you know if this product is available in the States?
Rebecca M.
San Diego , CA
Rebecca, as I've been informing readers, I do know all about what your last boyfriend used to enhance his orgasms. I'm happy to report that across the U.S. and Canada more and more men are finding out and using this unique supplement, learning that not only do they themselves benefit sexually, so too do their partners.
The physical contractions and fluid release during male orgasm can be multiplied and more sensitized using an all-natural product called Serogen. Although formulated to trigger stronger, longer orgasmic experiences in men by strengthening the prostate gland, an added bonus of using Serogen—from a woman's perspective—is that these powerful, added contractions men achieve while in the throes of an orgasm can induce an intense, simultaneous female climax.
Moreover, the term "ropes" Rebecca mentions in her letter is actually common European slang for the added contractions and heightened release that cause these rope-like sensations during male orgasm.
As far as finding this enhancement in the States, I know of just one importer - somalab.net.
MFM
How do I get my man to let me have sex with another guy fucking me anally while I am on top of my man?
Have you tried asking him? The fantasy trade-off usually works. Ask him what his fantasy is, and tell him you’ll make it happen for him if he will take part in your fantasy. Sometimes it is hard for a man to share his woman with another man, but make sure he understands that this is a fantasy. This is something to make you feel good and you want to share it with him.
Try Adult Friend Finder if you don't already have someone in mind.
Am I Gay?
I like things inserted into my anus. Am I gay?
Definitely not. Many men enjoy having things put into their anus. The prostate, located inside your anal cavity, is very sensitive and sexually arousing when stimulated. There is no need to feel shame about this. It is completely normal. Unless you want to put another man’s penis in your anus, you are not gay.
Bottoms Up Silicone "Please My P-Spot" Details
Check out this product from Adam & EveAwesome Erections From Your Prostate!
Now men can have body-quaking orgasms! Many men report harder erections and similar sexual satisfaction after massaging their prostate or P Spot™ –– and you can, too! Lube up this 6 1/4" long, 1" wide ergonomic wonder up and slip it inside. Silicone feels so good and is easy to clean. Add to the stimulation with a 7x-speed vibrating egg that fits inside the handle, sending vibrations deep into your prostate! Waterproof. Uses 2 AA batteries (sold separately).
The "P Spot" is for men what the G Spot is for women. A cluster of very sensitive nerve endings, that when stimulated, usually with an adult sex toy, can lead to some of the most intense orgasms you can have. For a man, that means the service of an anal sex toy is necessary –– and "Please My P Spot" is your ticket to paradise!
Silicone is a superior, more durable and hygienic material for any sex toy, anal or otherwise. Use water-based Adam & Eve sex lube whenever you plan on anal sex toy or vibrator use. As your body grabs onto the butt toy, sensations ripple throughout your genital area.
Add to the already pleasurable sensations by inserting the waterproof bullet vibrator. The vibrator's remote control has seven levels and patterns of vibrations to send through your prostate. You won't believe how hard you'll come.
The prostate stimulator is easier to clean if you first slip a condom over it, then lube the condom. When you're done, just remove the condom and your sex toy is as good as new.
Clean with warm water and mild dish soap, then pat dry and let it air dry thoroughly. You can also use Adam & Eve sex toy cleaner.
Batteries in the controller can be changed by unscrewing the cap in the base. Be sure to leave the "o" ring where it is –– this keeps the unit waterproof. Insert 2 AA batteries with plus "+" and minus "-" sides up as indicated inside.
When you use prostate stimulation alone or especially with a partner, get set from some fireworks! It's way more than just an anal dildo!
Mismatched Sex Drives
I am 35 years old and my boyfriend is 28 years of age. It seems like we are in different worlds when it comes to sex.
Usually it’s the man saying he isn't getting enough; this time it’s the opposite. I have never been this way with a man before: more open to try anything, and the more I get it the more I want it!
People say our age discrepancy is causing the problems due to our sex drive differences. This has become a serious problem. He’s unable to understand my higher libido and it sometimes makes me feel maybe I’m unattractive to him.
Kym
Dear K.
It is rare (and special!) when the sex drives of both people involved in a sexual relationship are equally matched. An imbalance in sexual interest among married couples is very common. One of the biggest problems marital counselors encounter in couples therapy is an incongruity of sexual desire between men and women.
There are many causes for a couple’s uneven sexual desire and for space constraints, I will keep this general.
Three major (and obviously related) causes that can greatly affect either gender’s libidos are: stress; depression and physical health.
Obviously any serious illness, from cancer, diabetes, thyroid disorders to drug and alcohol addictions are libido killers. Any cardiovascular problems reduce blood flow to the body, including the genitals, decreasing sexual interest.
Even a slight weight increase or cigarette smoking can greatly affect libido as we age.
Stress and anxiety, from work dilemmas to financial woes, can be considerably devastating to anyone’s sexual appetite.
Even mild depression is a clear infirmity. But just as tranquilizers and blood pressure medications can affect libido, many of the SSRIs used to treat depression can inhibit sexual desire.
How to Sync up Sexually
Open up the lines of communication. In the bedroom you must let him know how much he turns you on, how much you want to feel him and not that you are simply horny and need orgasmic relief. Many men are sensitive to the idea of feeling a little objectified (I’m sure to get a lot of letters to the contrary!). Do not take his rejection to heart and let it determine how you feel about yourself.
Communicate outside the bedroom as well. Talk it over in a calm, neutral, non-charged setting. Let your partner know you are open to making things better between you both. That’s half the battle.
Never Hurts to Educate Yourself
The following is a list of a few books on the subject:
  Mating In Captivity: Reconciling the Erotic and the Domestic ~ by Esther Perel |
  The Social Organization of Sexuality: Sexual Practices in the United State ~ Edward Lauman This is the most comprehensive survey of sexual practices since the Kinsey Report. |
  For Yourself, For Each Other: Sharing Sexual Intimacy ~ by Lonnie Barbach |
Masturbation Method
Meeting your sexual needs can be helped by you, yourself, and v(I)be. Masturbation is (and will always be) the tried and true way to fill the gaps. By getting yourself off you are not dependent on your partner to satisfy your arousals at the specific moments you may want or need them. Make your personal sessions something fantasy driven and fun, not depressing or guilt ridden. There are some great vibrators out there. Check out my shop page on vibrators. If you do not already own a vibrator, or if you do, maybe it’s time for an upgrade.
Check out the Rabbit Habit (designed by Vibratex).
Additional resources: webmd.com/sex/features/sex-drive-how-do-men-women-compare
Hope this helps.
N-A
SCAM SITE REPORTS
The nature of the Web has changed in the last year. Companies that sell products use sneaky optimization practices, create “shadow” sites and write negative reviews and comments about their competitor’s products in the hope to steal the competition away and lure them to the actual Web site that sells the site that gets all the made up accolades. The more you search the Web for products, the more you’ll see these kinds of sites. They are practically identical in nature and companies pay a great deal of money to “buy” these ad positions on search engines like Google and Yahoo. In order to have their advertisements seen they pay more money for their competitions’ product and company name, more money than the competitors pay for their trademarked names themselves!
Website’s that Border on Trademark Infringement
This practice has gotten out of control in the sexual enhancer arena, in particular. Many readers ask me about all kinds of products and as I research them on the Web, I’ve become alarmed at what some Werbsellers will stoop to in order to garner Web traffic.
So … Knowing that money is tight in these difficult economic times, and because reader have brought some of this behavior to light, as a service to my readers (and anyone that shops on the Web), I feel it’s my duty to give out a few “protection” pointers when shopping for sexual enhancements on the Web. Show people some examples of bogus or shadow sites, and provide some simple ways to use these fictitious sites to your advantage in order to find the better product you are looking for.
One Random Example
For example, this is a random site (I’ve heard of Orexis because of consumer complaints; I’ve never heard of Zenerx) I’ve pulled of Google to illustrate how a shadow site is intended to work and how to spot what product the site is shilling for:
The URL is http://impotenceguide.info/orexis-review.html
The corny doctor with the clipboard is the first dead giveaway; the 2d is the “comparision” chart. I clicked on “Let Us Know About Male Products You Have Used - Good and Bad” and emailed the Web administrator. Here’s what I posted:
“I've used both products: Orexis and Zenerx and found them to be of no help when it comes to helping erectile dysfunction. These products did not work, especially Zenerx.
There is no substitute for ED pharmaceuticals like Viagra,® Cialis, ® and Levitra® Please compare Zenerx and Orexis with these top-selling ED medications.”
Because this ED “info” site is shilling for Zenerx, I can guarantee you not only will the site not publish my email, I will not even get a reply!
How to Spot Dubious Web Content
These sites are considered “shadow” or “shill” sites, meaning they are usually administered by a company selling a particular competing product. Shadow sites contain fabricated content (whether it be negative reviews of competitor’s product or fake or anonymous forum postings).The best way to spot these sites are if they are associated with sponsored ads (paid ads that are strategically placed on a search engine page (for example, Google) when a competitor’s product is typed in the search field. The obvious culprits are sites that claim to have hundreds of product reviews or product “comparison” charts. Some sites go as far as creating fictitious “awards” for the product that the page is shilling. Also, be on the lookout for sites with “blogs” that regardless of the product you are searching for, you are in some way magically “steered” to the same product that is somehow always mentioned as the “best” of the bunch.
Another dead giveaway is that the templates of each site (color, font, identical wording, etc) is almost always similar or exactly the same. This type of Web presence is illegal and dishonest.
How to Find Honest Product Reviews, Not Fake or “Planted” Ones
Before I list a bunch of the worst offenders, I want to explain how Web shoppers can discern honest user reviews from disguised ones.
The best way for users to find honest reviews and comments about products they’re thinking of purchasing is to read customer reviews on Amazon, eBay or some of the other legitimate auction sites. User comments found on sites like Amazon are verified before they are posted.
How Web Shoppers can Use These Fabricated Sites to Guide them to the Better Product
Companies that sell products that work don’t need to use their own product names to gain brand loyalty (For instance, the three ED medications I mentioned earlier (Viagra,® Cialis, ® and Levitra®) speak for themselves.
Lets take a look at how someone using a search engine like Google can use the keywords that trigger all these “paid-for” sites to find the optimal product.
For an example, I typed “Serogen” into Google’s search bar.
Here’s some of the sponsored ads that came up:
http://www.herbal-sex-secrets.com/
http://www.themanschoice.com
http://www.everestnutrition.com/?SSAID=279755
Each Libidez™ capsule contains 420mg of an incredibly potent all-natural Erection Boosting Blend! This particular blend took over 7 years to perfect.
Libidez™ is comprised of a special blend of Herbs, Mushrooms and Greens.
Sexual Stimulant Blend 180mg
Organic Green Blend 60mg
I’ve also listed a few sites that have come up on the radar as “questionable.” The sites I’ve mentioned have either been reported by customers to consumer spots such as www.ripoffreport.com and www.complaints.com as well as sites with pending lawsuits against them as reported by Internet press release news services.
The following sites are guilty of this fraudulent behavior (most all of them are associated with the product, Orexis, distributed by Urban Nutrition.
I encourage my readers send email to me if you feel you have been misled or believe you have purchased a bogus product from a questionable Webseller.
Here are some other links to consumer complaints and board discussions that involve various male enhancement products (the names of the products are mentioned in the complaints and forum threads):
http://www.ripoffreport.com/reports/0/340/RipOff0340676.htm
http://www.ripoffreport.com/reports/0/129/RipOff0129374.htm#95699
http://www.ripoffreport.com/reports/0/059/RipOff0059819.htm
http://www.complaintsboard.com/complaints/rip-off-c146214.html
http://boards.webmd.com/webx?THD@@.899f24ac!thdchild=.899f24ac/6
http://learntheropes.net/reports/2009/01/the-truth-about-the-original-swedish-ropes-formula/
ABOUT
Although I can’t answer everyone who emails, I’ve responded privately to many of you, and I’ve just posted a recent “feature” letter along with my response here on the site as well as a testimonial for one of the products I endorse. More Q&A’s to come.
Nancy-Ann is a freelance cyber-writer contributing insights on the latest sexual fads, techniques, sex toys, and supplemental enhancements in the States, Canada, and Europe. Here on her popular Web site she publishes a featured letter of the month from one of her many readers. She also has an advice column, in which she answers reader questions and lists some of the latest, hottest adult-oriented products currently available.
Nancy-Ann’s articles have appeared in Oui, Hustler, Club, and Swank, and her writing has been posted on a number of adult Web sites. She created this site so she can have a more personal interaction with her readers.
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