My wife is pregnant and has no interest at all in sex or sexual acts what so ever. My question to you would be, what if any is your advice to arouse pregnant woman, I have tried a lot but nothing seems to work.

Thanks for any advice!

I'm sorry to tell you, if your wife is pregnant that's a perfectly understandable and legitimate reason to have zero interest in sex for awhile. You're just going to have to be understanding and patient - and maybe take matters into your own hands in the meantime!

Nancy, could you explain me details about erection dysfunctions? How does it happen and how to cure it?

There are a lot of physical and psychological causes of erectile dysfunction. Reduced blood flow to the penis and nerve damage are the most common physical causes. Underlying conditions related to erectile dysfunction include the following:

1. Vascular disease
2. Diabetes
3. Drugs
4. Hormone disorders
5. Neurologic conditions
6. Pelvic trauma, surgery, radiation therapy
7. Peyronie's disease
8. Venous leak
9. Psychological conditions

So, it is always my advice that you see a doctor first, so you can narrow down why you are having erectile dysfunction. As far as treatment for erectile dysfunction:

Sex Therapy
A significant number of men develop impotence from psychological causes that can be overcome.

Medical Treatment

1. Oral Medications like Viagra or Levitra.
2. Self-Injection to produce erections for about a half-hour.
3. Penis pumps can help produce erections in men who are already able to get a semi.

I hope this helps. My first advice is to see a professional to understand why the erectile dysfunction is occurring.

Here at the Nancy-Ann office we see a lot of porn.  I personally like the style and content of a few sites.  Here is a young woman from FemJoy.com.  Feel free to send me a comment if there is something else you would like to see.

For the reason we chose Eufrat's "Indian Summer" as this week's Best Of series, you need only look so far as the comments of our members:

Eufrat, all I can say is WOW!!! What a heart stopping experience it would be to be lucky enough to be there beside you!!! Need I say more?! It is cold shower time!!!

No question, this is one helluva lot of woman here. I've always liked fleshed-out women who maintain a well-rounded body with no spare tires, and Eufrat is a classic example of the type. Toned and well-fed, that's a delicate balance, and Eufrat does it in spades. I am among those who like a lot of rear elevation views, as long as they are offset by a good number of frontal- and side shots as this one is. Nice work, Demian, and kudos to you and to Eufrat!

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Eufrat does it to me like very few women alive. Those breasts are so absurdly pretty, and she has hips and thighs and a very soft belly...one of the most enticing models in the world today. An absolute sex bomb. I love her, and thank you for presenting her, in such an explicit but not vulgar way. Which is kind of what you guys are famous for, right?

More at FEMJOY.com

I see a lot of successful women today living in co-habitating relationship with men.

Is this really a healthy thing and how successful are these situations over a marriage or being single and not living together? It seems to me that the man has the better end of the deal without committing to a marriage. In a co-habitating situation, it seems like sex is based on a rent basis.

Do these relationship last and are they healthy? We not considering children in the scene.

What is your thoughts on this?

Well, Joe, I live with my boyfriend - we've been dating for 5+ years and living together for about 3. Speaking from my own experience, I think it's very healthy, and he isn't the only one benefiting from this situation! I, too, love having sex available to me 24 hours a day, 7 days a week!

It depends on each individual couple, really. Some aren't ready for, or interested in, marriage. That doesn't mean they don't want a commitment or to share their lives in some way. With divorce rates being so high these days, many younger people see it as a way to "try the car before they buy it" - to take the relationship further before making the final decision to marry. I, personally, would never marry someone before living with them first. I don't believe that I can really know someone unless I do.

Financially it also makes sense for many people. If they each pay rent on their own apartments, but spend most nights together at his or her place, why not just split the cost and pay one rent?

And for some, there's the distance issue. I know many people who were in long-distance relationships and it made more sense for one of them to move closer to the other and see how that worked before considering marriage (or instead of - again, not everyone is interested in marriage, and there's nothing wrong with that)!

Long story short, in this day and age it's the norm. And I think it's smart.

I just met a woman I like a lot, but she has difficulties reaching orgasm. She told me she had this issue before meeting me, but I thought I could "make" it happen. We’re both in our thirties and I never had a problem bringing any of my prior partners to climax.

Moreover, I have noticed she has a small clitoris. She’s come close from both oral sex and intercourse, but she has yet to reach orgasm. She mentioned the closest she’s gotten to having an orgasm is with me, especially during our first sexual encounter. Maybe it will eventually happen, but right now it seems she really doesn't have any confidence in her own success.

I do realize that her mindset has a lot to do with accomplishing our goal. She has had success with toys, but we really want to achieve this special moment when we’re both together.

Any suggestions?

R

Dear R,

Much of women reaching orgasm has to do with a female’s individual physiology. Regardless of your lady’s clit size, she still needs direct vaginal stimulus and clitoral friction to aid in reaching climax. And even with the proper stimulation, she still may not be able to push herself over the edge into bliss (in most cases, this is a psychological block).

Both of you should start by using her toys as a part of sex. Better to feel satisfied that she can reach orgasm with the help of sexual aides. By using these sexual accessories, this will allow her an adequate comfort level, as well as bestow you the confidence that her orgasms are possible with you present and “hands on.” Remember a genuine intimacy can be had by both when using sexual aids. This can (and should) lead you both to experiment with new sexual positions. Some women find it easier to reach orgasm when they’re on top; while she rides our pole, use your fingers to stimulate her clit. Additionally, when performing cunnilingus, open up her lips, find her magic button and alternately rub her clit and use our tongue and teeth to (gently!) nibble on her clit.

Additional resource:
http://www.seductioninsider.com/sex_tips/techniques_female_orgasm.shtml

Hope this helps.

N-A