Nancy, my boyfriend has always been able to satisfy me sexually. With an ample cock-size, average endurance, and creative oral technique, he almost never fails to get me off. But what I experienced the night he returned home from a business trip in Europe was the surprise of my life—a fucking I will never forget, and an orgasm that no man before him has ever come close to equaling. Since I love to suck cock, the second my boyfriend dropped his luggage I stripped off his clothes and proceeded to please him with my best welcome-home blow job.

Before long my wet mouth had him pumping gob after hot gob down my throat and on my face. With a fistful of throbbing cock, I held on for dear life as he unloaded his sweet jism; these were "power throbs" that kept launching massive amounts of come. I've never seen anything like it—a man having a multiple! I was so totally turned on being nearly drowned with his super-human load. And it didn't stop there! He stayed erect, throwing me down on the floor and pounding my twat until we both had simultaneous, earth-shattering orgasms, practically causing both of us to pass out. The rest of the evening and throughout the week we fucked ourselves into a frenzy; his recovery time between these super-charged orgasms was that of a teenage boy.

Since that mind-blowing night, all I can think of is sucking and fucking my new "power lover" all hours of the day and night. Finally, curiosity got the best of me, so I asked what had turned him into such a fuck machine. His answer: He had learned "The Ropes."

Turns out my boyfriend had spent an evening in Europe with a Swedish nutritionist and his wife of 20 years. The couple was openly sexual and couldn't keep their hands off each other, so my boyfriend asked them their secret. The nutritionist explained he regularly took a natural supplement, and gave my boyfriend about a month's supply, telling him it would teach him "the ropes" of great sex.

The supply is about to run out, and we want to know where we can buy this incredible enhancement. Do you know if this product is available in the States?

Rebecca M.

San Diego , CA

Rebecca, as I've been informing readers, I do know all about what your last boyfriend used to enhance his orgasms. I'm happy to report that across the U.S. and Canada more and more men are finding out and using this unique supplement, learning that not only do they themselves benefit sexually, so too do their partners.

The physical contractions and fluid release during male orgasm can be multiplied and more sensitized using an all-natural product called Serogen. Although formulated to trigger stronger, longer orgasmic experiences in men by strengthening the prostate gland, an added bonus of using Serogen—from a woman's perspective—is that these powerful, added contractions men achieve while in the throes of an orgasm can induce an intense, simultaneous female climax.

Moreover, the term "ropes" Rebecca mentions in her letter is actually common European slang for the added contractions and heightened release that cause these rope-like sensations during male orgasm.

As far as finding this enhancement in the States, I know of just one importer - somalab.net.

I've been married for 28 years. My wife and I have sex 2-3 times per week. She has 1-2 orgasms each time we make love.

Sounds perfect, right?

I'm in a never ending search for the "g" spot. Does it really exist?

Wow - how wonderful that you guys are enjoying such an active sex life after 28 years! Yes, that sounds pretty perfect!

But ah, the elusive g-spot. I personally have not found mine, but many women will attest to it's existence. The most common and successful method I know of to find it is to start by having her lie down on her stomach.

Slide 1 or 2 fingers inside her, palm down (lubricant if necessary!) and crook your fingers down towards her navel in a "come hither" motion, about 2 to 3 inches up along her vaginal wall. Stroke gently or have her rotate her pelvis until you find a small section that feels a bit different - some say it feels like an almond under the skin, some say the skin feels different.

Most women say they feel a need to urinate when the gspot is stimulated, so that's one way to tell! If at first you don't succeed, try try again! It's not an easy task. There are also many toys out there designed to help find and stimulate. Check these out.

Sensagen’s™ Proprietary Female Impulse Support Blend (FISB) is an assortment of high-end extracts that when combined offer women heightened and sustained sexual pleasure.

My girlfriend has recently enjoyed the use of sex toys, but it has not been positive in our sex life together. Now she cannot have an orgasm with me alone, as she once did several times during sex. It makes me feel like I am not doing my job anymore. Any advice?

Sex toys are great and can often be really important in having a healthy sexual relationship. In your case, it seems like sex toys are causing a bit of a problem. First off, I would suggest that you talk to your girlfriend about your concern that you are being replaced by toys. Sometimes what can help keep her sensitized is if she alternates using sex toys while she masturbates with using her hands. Help her get off without using sex toys. Stimulate her clit a bit more during foreplay. Give foreplay more time and really focus on making sure that she is close to orgasm before you actually have sex.

My wife tells me that I'm big enough and that I hurt good. Am I too big, should I take it easy? I am happy married for twenty years and with in these years we have six children and great moments of love and sex. I was wondering are there other things that I can do, techniques or skills we may use on each other. Life and Love is wonderful but can I do more want to keep it going. Right now I'm in the Army, separated from family for a year and missing my wife's body. So when I get home don't want to hurt her. Send me other techniques on pleasing her.

Thank you.

You can tell whether or not you are hurting your wife by looking at her face while you are having sex. If she looks like she is in pain, she probably is. Some positions hurt your partner more than others if you have a large penis. The most painful will be her on top. The least painful will be with you from behind (doggy style). Missionary should be alright, but you need to ask her and pay attention to her body and its reactions. You can also try entering her from behind with her on her side. If you do decide to have intercourse from behind make sure that her clit is stimulated. You can either do this with your hands or tell her you think its sexy if she does it herself. Then you have the pleasure of satisfying her, but also watching her satisfy herself.

If you want to impress your wife with new techniques, my suggestion would be to focus as much attention as you can on her body, particularly her nipples and her clitoris. Really impress her by how turned on you are by her body. I guarantee she'll be pleased.

I am a 30 year old guy. My girlfriend of 3 years and I have a 7 month old son together. Before the baby we had a good sex life and now if we have sex once a month we just have it because we did not have sex. When I try to get things started it is "I am tired" or "I have a headache" or she just doesn't want to. What should I do about this? I love my girl very much and I just can't handle this for much longer.

I know it's difficult when it seems like the passion has left a relationship. As your relationship has changed with the arrival of a child, perhaps you try changing up some of your sex techniques. Find out what really turns your girlfriend on. Try some new things. Think about what really makes you hot and let her know. Routine can often make things dull ... remember that. You may try using some sex toys or porno. There is nothing wrong with stepping outside of your normal activities. Try to reconnect sexually by finding out exactly what your girlfriend wants from you and the give it to her.