After Baby
I am a 30 year old guy. My girlfriend of 3 years and I have a 7 month old son together. Before the baby we had a good sex life and now if we have sex once a month we just have it because we did not have sex. When I try to get things started it is "I am tired" or "I have a headache" or she just doesn't want to. What should I do about this? I love my girl very much and I just can't handle this for much longer.
I know it's difficult when it seems like the passion has left a relationship. As your relationship has changed with the arrival of a child, perhaps you try changing up some of your sex techniques. Find out what really turns your girlfriend on. Try some new things. Think about what really makes you hot and let her know. Routine can often make things dull ... remember that. You may try using some sex toys or porno. There is nothing wrong with stepping outside of your normal activities. Try to reconnect sexually by finding out exactly what your girlfriend wants from you and the give it to her.
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