Nancy-Ann advice on sex, love and erotic enhancements

21Feb/100

Uncut Masturbatory Annoyance

My penis is uncut and yet when I masturbate my foreskin becomes exposed and starts to get sensitive and it stings to the touch. I find this annoying. Is there any product that might help cut down on the irritation?

Jimmy

Whether circumcised or uncircumcised, the method of self sexual stimulation for all men is identical: the movement and friction created by using your own hands stimulates the nerve endings on the head and shaft of the penis. However, uncut men have more to worry about than their cut brothers.

Overly vigorous stimulation can sometimes lead to Phimosis and/or paraphimosis).
My gender limits me from giving you detailed advice, but one way to avoid the irritation you are experiencing is as simple as changing up your masturbatory approach and technique as well as lengthening the time between masturbatory intervals.

One effective way to reduce the onset of friction that might be leading your skin to become irritated is to use a good water-based lubricant (there are dozens of excellent Silicone-based lubricants on the market).  Silicone-based lubricants are your best bet since they do not tend to get sticky and therefore are less likely to cause irritation (click here to see a wide range of lubricants).
Hope this helps.

3Sep/090

Earth Shattering BJ

I just have a simple question. How do you give an earth-shattering blow-job to your boyfriend?

Every man likes different things when it comes to getting a blow-job, but I can give you the basics of an amazing blow-job. First cup his balls with one hand and take his entire penis into your mouth. Get him wet by pulling your tongue and lips from the base of his penis to the head. Hold the shaft of his penis in your hand and lick the head like you are licking an ice cream cone. Alternate this with sucking his penis as far into your mouth as you can. Often the combination of a hand-job at the base of the penis and a good wet suction at the head will help him come. Continue sucking until he comes. A lot of men love it when you swallow, but he may also want to ejaculate on your body.

13Jul/090

Assessing Possible STD's

A couple months ago, I noticed that the shaft of my penis beside the head and the foreskin around it became red, irritated, itchy, and it has some small spots on it. Sometimes there is no pain; other times it feels warm or just during intercourse it becomes very itchy and a bit painful. Is it some kind of allergy? Or it could be some kind of herpes infection?

I am very shy to visit my doctor.

Any advice?

A

Dear A,

Get to the doctor! This is a serious matter on many levels:

#1) Your health; and #2) The unfair possibility that you are likely passing on an STD to your partner.

Embarrassment IS NOT an option! You don’t have to visit your regular practitioner; any professional will do. Just get over it and take care of yourself. If not properly diagnosed and treated, your condition will only get worse and the likelihood of (unfairly) passing on a disease to one (or more) unsuspecting partners is unacceptable.

Hope this helps.

N-A