Two-Pump Chump
Dear Nancy:
I'll get right to the point. I'm a two-pump chump. I need help. I've tried several techniques exorcises and supplements. I'm recently divorced and would like to play the field before I settle down again, but the return rate is not so good because of this. I would really love to give them orgasms by penetration instead of orally or manually. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.
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Hmmm. A two-pump chump. Some of the obvious cures: Masturbate prior to having sex with your lady. Can't hurt to try: There's also "delay" creams available for men in your predicament, which helps desensitize the nerve endings in the tissue of skin around shaft and head of penis. One I know of off-hand is Doc Johnsons Power Delay Cream. 
I don't know how effective this particular product is, but is one of many of this type of product. Doc Johnsons just happens to be a name I know of.
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Bigger Cock, Louder Sex?
My girlfriend and I have been together for about three years and I have no problem getting her to achieve orgasm, but she is never very vocal during sex, which makes me feel like it’s not big enough. I’ve talked to her about getting penis enlargement pills, but she says that’s a bad idea. Should I try to secretly increase the size with pills? And why is she not vocal when we have sex?
First off, I would not try secretly increasing the size of your penis. The pills that you see advertised everywhere do not work. They are a waste of money. Secondly, your girlfriend not being vocal during sex probably has nothing to do with the size of your penis. Women are often quite shy about making a lot of noise while they are having sex. Are you very vocal during sex? This is the place to start. Show her how sexy you think it is to show how turned on you are. Try talking dirty. Tell her exactly what you are going to do to her. Talk to her while you do it. Ask her what she likes. Ask her what she wants. Make her feel comfortable and unembarrassed about making noise. I bet it’ll make a big difference.
Hope for the uncut?
Is there anyway to make a penis bigger and longer if the penis isn't circumcises yet?
Does the skin cause a problem with becoming fully erect?
Also, every time I have sex with my wife, I don't last long, I orgasm before my wife. I've tried condoms, delay cream, and masturbating before having sex. It's not working.
Is there anyway to hold orgasm a little bit longer ?
Having your foreskin still has nothing to do with the length and size of your penis. If anything, the foreskin increases sensation. This helps the penis get as long as thick and as hard as possible. Removal of your foreskin would not have any benefit at all in regards to the size of your penis.
There are a few things that you can try to help you wait to cum. My first suggestion would be to slow your breathing while you are having sex. If you can slow your rhythm down, it can help delay orgasm. Instead of shallow and fast breaths, breath deeply and slowly. You can also practice holding off cumming by taking your time masturbating. Slowly get yourself as hard as you can. Take your time working yourself into a complete erection. Do not ejaculate. Let the erection go down a bit. Start over again. See how long you can keep yourself hard and aroused without ejaculating. Finally, let yourself ejaculate. This will help extend how long it takes for you to cum.
Finally, you can also arouse your girlfriend until she is just about to cum, either with you mouth or hands, and then have sex with her. Or let her cum first and then you can try to make her cum again with your penis.
Ex Sex
I have a problem.
I used to be married but I got divorced. I am currently living with someone else but for the last 2 years since my divorce I am still going to my x wife's house at night and we have sex. Better then ever.
I know I still love her and that she loves me. The only thing is the last couple of days she is turning me down and saying to me: "No don't come today; I will call you" and stuff. I tell her on a daily basis: "Let's try it, let's see each other like this for some time and if it goes fine I will leave my current girl friend and come back to where I wanna be".
The question is what can I do to show her that I wanna try to do just that?? Because for her it is like I just wanna come over have sex, cum and leave, and for me it isn't like that. The last time I walked in and she said take of you clothes. She took of her p.j.'s, she was naked there and she said come do what you gotta do, fuck me and leave. I did have sex with her because at my house with my current girl friend I'm not having sex because of the mixed feelings and wanting my ex wife so yes. I penetrated her and yes I fucked her but it was just in out in out cum cum and that's it.
When she said to me take of your clothes for me it was like wawww she wants to see me naked and she wants to play with me and suck my cock and stuff but noooo just in out in out no kisses no nothing she did not even want me to lick and suck her pussy + titties.
What should I do?
Whether you and your wife get back together or not there's something you need to take care of immediately: STOP CHEATING ON YOUR GIRLFRIEND. If you want to be with your ex-wife, then why are you still living with someone else? It is unfair to your girlfriend to have you running around to have sex with your ex-wife like this, ok?
First things first: Confess to your girlfriend and end that relationship. If you want to stay with your girlfriend, then you MUST stop seeing your ex-wife.
As for your ex-wife: There's a reason she's your ex-wife and I'd be willing to bet that you aren't the only man she's having sex with. Let's pretend, for a moment, that maybe she does want to be with you again - the fact that you live with someone else is a bit of a problem, isn't it? If your ex-wife wants proof that you want to try, then be a man and step up and leave your current girlfriend.
In any case, I feel sorry for your current girlfriend - seeing how you're treating her, I can't blame your ex-wife for saying what she does. You need to do the right thing here and stop lying to everyone involved and get yourself out of this mess.
Cohabitation
I see a lot of successful women today living in co-habitating relationship with men.
Is this really a healthy thing and how successful are these situations over a marriage or being single and not living together? It seems to me that the man has the better end of the deal without committing to a marriage. In a co-habitating situation, it seems like sex is based on a rent basis.
Do these relationship last and are they healthy? We not considering children in the scene.
What is your thoughts on this?
Well, Joe, I live with my boyfriend - we've been dating for 5+ years and living together for about 3. Speaking from my own experience, I think it's very healthy, and he isn't the only one benefiting from this situation! I, too, love having sex available to me 24 hours a day, 7 days a week!
It depends on each individual couple, really. Some aren't ready for, or interested in, marriage. That doesn't mean they don't want a commitment or to share their lives in some way. With divorce rates being so high these days, many younger people see it as a way to "try the car before they buy it" - to take the relationship further before making the final decision to marry. I, personally, would never marry someone before living with them first. I don't believe that I can really know someone unless I do.
Financially it also makes sense for many people. If they each pay rent on their own apartments, but spend most nights together at his or her place, why not just split the cost and pay one rent?
And for some, there's the distance issue. I know many people who were in long-distance relationships and it made more sense for one of them to move closer to the other and see how that worked before considering marriage (or instead of - again, not everyone is interested in marriage, and there's nothing wrong with that)!
Long story short, in this day and age it's the norm. And I think it's smart.
Ball Tying
I have tried tying my balls up during sex and it gives me a very intense cum shot. Is there any danger to this?
As long as you are not tying your balls up too tightly, it should not be a problem. I also do not suggest keeping your balls tied up when you are not either having sex or masturbating. This could affect your sperm count and reproductive health. Otherwise… enjoy.
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Hurts So Good.
My wife tells me that I'm big enough and that I hurt good. Am I too big, should I take it easy? I am happy married for twenty years and with in these years we have six children and great moments of love and sex. I was wondering are there other things that I can do, techniques or skills we may use on each other. Life and Love is wonderful but can I do more want to keep it going. Right now I'm in the Army, separated from family for a year and missing my wife's body. So when I get home don't want to hurt her. Send me other techniques on pleasing her.
Thank you.
You can tell whether or not you are hurting your wife by looking at her face while you are having sex. If she looks like she is in pain, she probably is. Some positions hurt your partner more than others if you have a large penis. The most painful will be her on top. The least painful will be with you from behind (doggy style). Missionary should be alright, but you need to ask her and pay attention to her body and its reactions. You can also try entering her from behind with her on her side. If you do decide to have intercourse from behind make sure that her clit is stimulated. You can either do this with your hands or tell her you think its sexy if she does it herself. Then you have the pleasure of satisfying her, but also watching her satisfy herself.
If you want to impress your wife with new techniques, my suggestion would be to focus as much attention as you can on her body, particularly her nipples and her clitoris. Really impress her by how turned on you are by her body. I guarantee she'll be pleased.
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