Earth Shattering BJ
I just have a simple question. How do you give an earth-shattering blow-job to your boyfriend?
Every man likes different things when it comes to getting a blow-job, but I can give you the basics of an amazing blow-job. First cup his balls with one hand and take his entire penis into your mouth. Get him wet by pulling your tongue and lips from the base of his penis to the head. Hold the shaft of his penis in your hand and lick the head like you are licking an ice cream cone. Alternate this with sucking his penis as far into your mouth as you can. Often the combination of a hand-job at the base of the penis and a good wet suction at the head will help him come. Continue sucking until he comes. A lot of men love it when you swallow, but he may also want to ejaculate on your body.
Ball Out Of Bounds?
I hear men enjoy their balls being stimulated while giving them oral pleasure or a hand job. This seems really odd to me in that I only have ever dealt with the shaft and the balls have always been "off-limits." Will a guy think it's weird if I actually did go for his balls? How would I approach them? When the best time to focus my attention on his nuts? Also, any other little oral tips you have would be great, thanks.
I doubt a guy will think it is weird if you “approach" his testicles. First you can just start out by playing with them while you give him head and massaging them. If he seems to like that, you can jerk him off for a little while you gently suck and lick his balls. Trust me, men really enjoy it. Some guys even like you to put both his testicles and his shaft in your mouth (if, of course, you are able). Open up the communication path and talk about this with your guy.
Some tips for oral sex.
1. We all know that sex and orgasms are 90% mental, even for men, so your mindset and the impression you give your boyfriend must be, "I love your penis and I love giving you head." Seems simple enough, but this first step is usually the downfall of most women. If you give the impression that giving oral sex is a chore, a favor, or in some way not pleasurable for you, it takes so much away from the experience. If he thinks, "She wants me in her mouth," you've got him. Dirty talk doesn't hurt either.
2. The teeth can never touch the penis. Period. You need to use your lips and tongue. Any contact with teeth -- even one tooth -- is distracting and may be painful.
3. Most men like to be simultaneously stimulated by the hand and the mouth. Just hold the penis at the bottom of the shaft and use your mouth up and down, getting in to a rhythm like you are giving him a hand job into your mouth. This is a great option if it is difficult for you to deep throat because of your gag reflex. Deep-throating is really overrated. If you do this he will never miss it.
4. Well, you might not like hearing this, but swallowing is really important. It is so erotic for a guy to ejaculate in a woman's mouth -- it takes the experience to a completely new level. No making faces, no saying "yuck" If you just cannot do it, then a reasonable alternative is to allow the guy to ejaculate on your body somewhere. That can be just as erotic.
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