MFM
How do I get my man to let me have sex with another guy fucking me anally while I am on top of my man?
Have you tried asking him? The fantasy trade-off usually works. Ask him what his fantasy is, and tell him you’ll make it happen for him if he will take part in your fantasy. Sometimes it is hard for a man to share his woman with another man, but make sure he understands that this is a fantasy. This is something to make you feel good and you want to share it with him.
Try Adult Friend Finder if you don't already have someone in mind.
Ball Out Of Bounds?
I hear men enjoy their balls being stimulated while giving them oral pleasure or a hand job. This seems really odd to me in that I only have ever dealt with the shaft and the balls have always been "off-limits." Will a guy think it's weird if I actually did go for his balls? How would I approach them? When the best time to focus my attention on his nuts? Also, any other little oral tips you have would be great, thanks.
I doubt a guy will think it is weird if you “approach" his testicles. First you can just start out by playing with them while you give him head and massaging them. If he seems to like that, you can jerk him off for a little while you gently suck and lick his balls. Trust me, men really enjoy it. Some guys even like you to put both his testicles and his shaft in your mouth (if, of course, you are able). Open up the communication path and talk about this with your guy.
Some tips for oral sex.
1. We all know that sex and orgasms are 90% mental, even for men, so your mindset and the impression you give your boyfriend must be, "I love your penis and I love giving you head." Seems simple enough, but this first step is usually the downfall of most women. If you give the impression that giving oral sex is a chore, a favor, or in some way not pleasurable for you, it takes so much away from the experience. If he thinks, "She wants me in her mouth," you've got him. Dirty talk doesn't hurt either.
2. The teeth can never touch the penis. Period. You need to use your lips and tongue. Any contact with teeth -- even one tooth -- is distracting and may be painful.
3. Most men like to be simultaneously stimulated by the hand and the mouth. Just hold the penis at the bottom of the shaft and use your mouth up and down, getting in to a rhythm like you are giving him a hand job into your mouth. This is a great option if it is difficult for you to deep throat because of your gag reflex. Deep-throating is really overrated. If you do this he will never miss it.
4. Well, you might not like hearing this, but swallowing is really important. It is so erotic for a guy to ejaculate in a woman's mouth -- it takes the experience to a completely new level. No making faces, no saying "yuck" If you just cannot do it, then a reasonable alternative is to allow the guy to ejaculate on your body somewhere. That can be just as erotic.
After Baby
I am a 30 year old guy. My girlfriend of 3 years and I have a 7 month old son together. Before the baby we had a good sex life and now if we have sex once a month we just have it because we did not have sex. When I try to get things started it is "I am tired" or "I have a headache" or she just doesn't want to. What should I do about this? I love my girl very much and I just can't handle this for much longer.
I know it's difficult when it seems like the passion has left a relationship. As your relationship has changed with the arrival of a child, perhaps you try changing up some of your sex techniques. Find out what really turns your girlfriend on. Try some new things. Think about what really makes you hot and let her know. Routine can often make things dull ... remember that. You may try using some sex toys or porno. There is nothing wrong with stepping outside of your normal activities. Try to reconnect sexually by finding out exactly what your girlfriend wants from you and the give it to her.
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