Mystery Fluid
The last time my lady and I got together we had great sex; before we fucked I licked her clit for a while. After we were finished, she told me she felt a little bit of fluid release. But I didn't experience anything noticeable. Since she has never had an orgasm I'm assuming she wouldn't really know what climaxing would feel like, let alone an orgasm that releases ejaculate. Also, I've never made a woman squirt before, but I wish I could. Do you have any improvement tips on cunnilingus or advice on technique to push her to have an orgasm?
Taylor L. - Los Angeles , CA
Statistics say that 75% of all women cannot have an orgasm through intercourse, but ... 95% of all woman can orgasm through oral sex. There are some women who are not sure if they have ever had an orgasm; some are afraid to have an orgasm. It is important for your partner to relax, know that she is safe, and that you won't judge her on how she reacts when she finally does have one. Some women will not allow themselves a chance to orgasm due to the fact they think they might not be able to control their bladder. Your partner may not have had an orgasm at all, but rather urinated a bit because she lost some control. Although this may seem gross, it is perfectly natural.
When you are being oral, be very patient. Do not rush things. Mix it up. Lick and tongue her vaginal lips and use your tongue like a little penis. Females tend to have two g-spots: the clitoris, and about three inches inside and up. Next time, try teasing her orally. Build it up some, licking and kissing her inner thighs, and possibly using a toy inside of her. Try making eye contact too. Erotic words can also increase one's pleasure tremendously. Most importantly, keep communication open before, during, and after any sexual act.
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