Nancy-Ann advice on sex, love and erotic enhancements

Bend Over Boyfriend

I have no doubt that I am straight, but lately I've been wanting my girlfriend to put on a strap on and fuck me.

How do I ask this? My ex-girlfriend introduced me to putting her fingers inside my anus during oral sex, and ever since I have been addicted to the feeling. Should I feel ashamed when I finger my anus when going down on a girl? When my wife gives me hand jobs she sometimes puts a small vibrator in my ass. I like this it makes me get off so hard. I often wonder what it would feel like to use a larger one, but I don't know how to ask her. I don't want her to get freaked out by just coming out and asking for a bigger one.

Do you have any good ideals on how I might ask her?

Thanks for any help!

Lucky you for having met someone who introduced you to something new! You absolutely should NOT feel anything bad about what you enjoy. Many, many men enjoy the well-placed finger, whether their own or a partner's. Why not take it up a notch and position yourself in a way that lets your girlfriend have that access to you while you go down on her? Of course, doing it for yourself is just fine but feel free to clue any future partners in about what turns you on as well!

I wouldn't worry too much about freaking her out, as she's already ok with the idea of using toys on you. If you want to try something bigger, you have a few options. You could ask as she's using the small vibrator - it's quite sexy to tell someone how much you enjoy what they're doing to you, and then add, "What do you think about trying something bigger?" Or, surprise her - buy a toy you'd like to try and next time she reaches for the vibrator, have the new toy ready and ask, with a big smile, "Can we try this one?". OR - simply talk to her, talk about how much you enjoy what she does, that you're glad the two of you are comfortable enough together to explore different things, sexually. Ask if there's anything else she'd like to try which will probably lead to asking the same of you and then you can tell her. You never know - she may already be thinking the same thing!