Small Penis
My penis is really, REALLY SMALL, and I am afraid that when time comes for me to have sex with my girlfriend, she will just laugh, and then dump me for being really small. What can I do?!?!??!
What can you do? There is only one option. Tell her.
You can't know until you try. Worst case is that you will get laughed at and/or she will dump you. Best case is that she won't care what size you are. You won't find out unless you talk to her.
The question : Does size matter?
The answer: Yes. But....
But... not to all women. Some women are "size queens" and size is of vital importance. Other women are far more concerned about technique or foreplay or simply personality.
I don't know what you mean by REALLY small. Average is 5" to 6". Small would be below 5" and REALLY small would be below 4". In my mind at any rate. Size is also in the eyes of the beholder. If your girlfriend is a virgin or has only been with lesser endowed men then she won't be put off.
Also, woman's vagina's vary in size too. Some women want a smaller penis as larger ones hurt them.
Good luck.
It's Mental
No point in saying it in a round-about way: something is wrong. Even during foreplay, I have trouble staying erect, or even getting it there, as soon as a woman touches me something happens inside and my little soldier doesn’t salute. This is difficult for me as well as my partner, help please!
Has this been a problem in the past? Are you able to masturbate to completion?
The cause of this could psychological in nature. Losing an erection or an absence of ejaculation is caused by any number of anxiety-related concerns. Some men have conscious and unconscious worries that effect erections or block ejaculations. They may worry about hurting the woman, about pregnancy, or they may have guilt about having sexual pleasure (often religious injunctions). They may have difficulties with intimacy and/or commitment. They may also be haunted by that nemesis of sexual dysfunctions -- performance anxiety. In other words, they are just plain trying too hard. In these instances the man is so concerned about giving his partner pleasure that he loses track of his own.
For you, my guess is the last reason. You want to see a doctor (since I am NOT one!). Have you tried Viagra, Cialis or Levitra? You may want to take that first step. Ask your doctor.
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My girlfriend has recently enjoyed the use of sex toys, but it has not been positive in our sex life together. Now she cannot have an orgasm with me alone, as she once did several times during sex. It makes me feel like I am not doing my job anymore. Any advice?
Sex toys are great and can often be really important in having a healthy sexual relationship. In your case, it seems like sex toys are causing a bit of a problem. First off, I would suggest that you talk to your girlfriend about your concern that you are being replaced by toys. Sometimes what can help keep her sensitized is if she alternates using sex toys while she masturbates with using her hands. Help her get off without using sex toys. Stimulate her clit a bit more during foreplay. Give foreplay more time and really focus on making sure that she is close to orgasm before you actually have sex.
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