Eufrat – [NSFW]
Inspiration
Here at the Nancy-Ann office we see a lot of porn. I personally like the style and content of a few sites. Here is a young woman from FemJoy.com. Feel free to send me a comment if there is something else you would like to see.
For the reason we chose Eufrat's "Indian Summer" as this week's Best Of series, you need only look so far as the comments of our members:
Eufrat, all I can say is WOW!!! What a heart stopping experience it would be to be lucky enough to be there beside you!!! Need I say more?! It is cold shower time!!!
No question, this is one helluva lot of woman here. I've always liked fleshed-out women who maintain a well-rounded body with no spare tires, and Eufrat is a classic example of the type. Toned and well-fed, that's a delicate balance, and Eufrat does it in spades. I am among those who like a lot of rear elevation views, as long as they are offset by a good number of frontal- and side shots as this one is. Nice work, Demian, and kudos to you and to Eufrat!
OMG... I sure liked her sexy natural look on the first photo sets, but she's getting better and hotter with every set... Keep her coming!
Eufrat does it to me like very few women alive. Those breasts are so absurdly pretty, and she has hips and thighs and a very soft belly...one of the most enticing models in the world today. An absolute sex bomb. I love her, and thank you for presenting her, in such an explicit but not vulgar way. Which is kind of what you guys are famous for, right?
More at FEMJOY.com ![]()
Ball Out Of Bounds?
I hear men enjoy their balls being stimulated while giving them oral pleasure or a hand job. This seems really odd to me in that I only have ever dealt with the shaft and the balls have always been "off-limits." Will a guy think it's weird if I actually did go for his balls? How would I approach them? When the best time to focus my attention on his nuts? Also, any other little oral tips you have would be great, thanks.
I doubt a guy will think it is weird if you “approach" his testicles. First you can just start out by playing with them while you give him head and massaging them. If he seems to like that, you can jerk him off for a little while you gently suck and lick his balls. Trust me, men really enjoy it. Some guys even like you to put both his testicles and his shaft in your mouth (if, of course, you are able). Open up the communication path and talk about this with your guy.
Some tips for oral sex.
1. We all know that sex and orgasms are 90% mental, even for men, so your mindset and the impression you give your boyfriend must be, "I love your penis and I love giving you head." Seems simple enough, but this first step is usually the downfall of most women. If you give the impression that giving oral sex is a chore, a favor, or in some way not pleasurable for you, it takes so much away from the experience. If he thinks, "She wants me in her mouth," you've got him. Dirty talk doesn't hurt either.
2. The teeth can never touch the penis. Period. You need to use your lips and tongue. Any contact with teeth -- even one tooth -- is distracting and may be painful.
3. Most men like to be simultaneously stimulated by the hand and the mouth. Just hold the penis at the bottom of the shaft and use your mouth up and down, getting in to a rhythm like you are giving him a hand job into your mouth. This is a great option if it is difficult for you to deep throat because of your gag reflex. Deep-throating is really overrated. If you do this he will never miss it.
4. Well, you might not like hearing this, but swallowing is really important. It is so erotic for a guy to ejaculate in a woman's mouth -- it takes the experience to a completely new level. No making faces, no saying "yuck" If you just cannot do it, then a reasonable alternative is to allow the guy to ejaculate on your body somewhere. That can be just as erotic.

He Won't Go Down
My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years, we have sex its great but I can't get him to go down on me but for a few minutes, he says he won't do it for longer than that because of a previous experience of a woman lying to him about not being on her monthly cycle and she was. Now he deprives me of the one thing I want.
How can I make him realize that I'm not like her?
Please help me!
What a load of crap.
IF that were true - then you say, "Honey, we have to have a relationship based on trust. If it bothers you that much, I promise to always warn you when I'm bleeding like a stuck pig. You can even be let off duty the day after it ends as well, just to play it safe, but the days in between, you gotta give me more than a few minutes down there." Then you give him a calendar where he can mark the days of your cycle just so he can keep an eye on it himself. But realistically - sorry, but he's full of it. He just doesn't like doing it for some reason.
I'll bet one of three things is going on:
A) He's nervous and is afraid he sucks at it, in which case be as encouraging as possible.
B) Maybe he doesn't like to do it because... well, maybe you aren't the freshest flower in the bunch, ya know what I mean? Make a habit of showering first, then enticing him to have sex, and ask him to PLEASE, PLEASE, PLEASE go down on you. See if you notice any difference in how long he stays down there.
Or
C) He's just a selfish, selfish man. If there's no good reason - he just doesn't wanna - then decide if you can live with it or not. I dated a guy for 4 years who did that for me TWICE. TWICE in four years. I decided I couldn't live with that, and have now been with someone for 5 years (and counting) who does everything I could ever dream of with enthusiasm.
But the big problem here is that he's making excuses and not being honest with you. Demand he tell you what's REALLY going on, and go from there.
Porn Addict
How does one know if they are addicted to porn? I think that I might be.
Short answer: Can you go a week (or even a day) without looking at porn? If that is difficult, then I'd say you are.
The quickest way that you can know if you are addicted to anything is if begins to become more important than the real experience. If you are unable to have a sexual realtionship without the use of porn, you may have an unhealthy reliance on it. Porn is great, but it isn't real. Porn is hot, but it isn't about connection between two people. I think you need to ask yourself if porn has become more important than the real thing, and if so, why? I dated a guy for a long time who really suffered a long road of pornography addiction, and I know it can be really difficult. If you are experiencing any of these things, I hope you can get some help. Sex Addicts Anonymous is a great place to work through some of these issues. And it's free. Before you look for outside help see if your will is strong enough to delete all the porn on your hard drive, throw away all porn magazines and movies and if you subscribe to porn site, cancel your account(s). If this is not possible for you to do, then SA might be for you.

