Retrograde Ejaculation
Dear Nancy-Ann, I have no problem getting an erection. As a matter of fact I can get it up everyday if necessary. My problem is with ejaculation. My girlfriend loves oral sex and isn't satisfied unless I come in her mouth. She wants to swallow as much of my semen as she can get but the problem is she is not getting any because when I climax there is no semen pumping out of my penis.
My penis throbs like I was going to come but no semen. All my climaxes have been dry runs. What is my problem and will any of the Serogen products work for me?
Bobby
Well Bobby, let me first say I don’t know who I envy more, you or girlfriend. A partner who’s willing AND able is every girls wish. As for your lack of ejaculate during climax, that may be potentially more serious. It sounds like what you are experiencing is a condition called retrograde ejaculation. The causes range from diabetes, BPH, side effects of certain prescription meds, or the results of surgical procedures. I am not a doctor, so please don’t take this as a professional diagnosis!! Get to a doctor.
I am an outspoken believer in the beneficial qualities of Serogen, as it promotes overall prostate health. In your case, I suggest you consult a urologist as soon as possible to get your condition diagnosed correctly so you then find out from a professional what your options are.
Hope for the uncut?
Is there anyway to make a penis bigger and longer if the penis isn't circumcises yet?
Does the skin cause a problem with becoming fully erect?
Also, every time I have sex with my wife, I don't last long, I orgasm before my wife. I've tried condoms, delay cream, and masturbating before having sex. It's not working.
Is there anyway to hold orgasm a little bit longer ?
Having your foreskin still has nothing to do with the length and size of your penis. If anything, the foreskin increases sensation. This helps the penis get as long as thick and as hard as possible. Removal of your foreskin would not have any benefit at all in regards to the size of your penis.
There are a few things that you can try to help you wait to cum. My first suggestion would be to slow your breathing while you are having sex. If you can slow your rhythm down, it can help delay orgasm. Instead of shallow and fast breaths, breath deeply and slowly. You can also practice holding off cumming by taking your time masturbating. Slowly get yourself as hard as you can. Take your time working yourself into a complete erection. Do not ejaculate. Let the erection go down a bit. Start over again. See how long you can keep yourself hard and aroused without ejaculating. Finally, let yourself ejaculate. This will help extend how long it takes for you to cum.
Finally, you can also arouse your girlfriend until she is just about to cum, either with you mouth or hands, and then have sex with her. Or let her cum first and then you can try to make her cum again with your penis.
Can't Come
My wife and I enjoy oral sex very much. My question is: How do I prepare myself for ejaculation when my wife is orally pleasing me? I sometimes have the urge to ejaculate, but I cannot come in her mouth.
Help.
It is not unusual for men to have difficulty ejaculating during oral sex. My suggestion would be to have her give you head until you feel like you are close to coming. Then either have her give you a hand job until you come or you can take over and masturbate into her mouth. It takes a little practice, but is well worth the extra effort.
Ball Out Of Bounds?
I hear men enjoy their balls being stimulated while giving them oral pleasure or a hand job. This seems really odd to me in that I only have ever dealt with the shaft and the balls have always been "off-limits." Will a guy think it's weird if I actually did go for his balls? How would I approach them? When the best time to focus my attention on his nuts? Also, any other little oral tips you have would be great, thanks.
I doubt a guy will think it is weird if you “approach" his testicles. First you can just start out by playing with them while you give him head and massaging them. If he seems to like that, you can jerk him off for a little while you gently suck and lick his balls. Trust me, men really enjoy it. Some guys even like you to put both his testicles and his shaft in your mouth (if, of course, you are able). Open up the communication path and talk about this with your guy.
Some tips for oral sex.
1. We all know that sex and orgasms are 90% mental, even for men, so your mindset and the impression you give your boyfriend must be, "I love your penis and I love giving you head." Seems simple enough, but this first step is usually the downfall of most women. If you give the impression that giving oral sex is a chore, a favor, or in some way not pleasurable for you, it takes so much away from the experience. If he thinks, "She wants me in her mouth," you've got him. Dirty talk doesn't hurt either.
2. The teeth can never touch the penis. Period. You need to use your lips and tongue. Any contact with teeth -- even one tooth -- is distracting and may be painful.
3. Most men like to be simultaneously stimulated by the hand and the mouth. Just hold the penis at the bottom of the shaft and use your mouth up and down, getting in to a rhythm like you are giving him a hand job into your mouth. This is a great option if it is difficult for you to deep throat because of your gag reflex. Deep-throating is really overrated. If you do this he will never miss it.
4. Well, you might not like hearing this, but swallowing is really important. It is so erotic for a guy to ejaculate in a woman's mouth -- it takes the experience to a completely new level. No making faces, no saying "yuck" If you just cannot do it, then a reasonable alternative is to allow the guy to ejaculate on your body somewhere. That can be just as erotic.
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