Earth Shattering BJ
I just have a simple question. How do you give an earth-shattering blow-job to your boyfriend?
Every man likes different things when it comes to getting a blow-job, but I can give you the basics of an amazing blow-job. First cup his balls with one hand and take his entire penis into your mouth. Get him wet by pulling your tongue and lips from the base of his penis to the head. Hold the shaft of his penis in your hand and lick the head like you are licking an ice cream cone. Alternate this with sucking his penis as far into your mouth as you can. Often the combination of a hand-job at the base of the penis and a good wet suction at the head will help him come. Continue sucking until he comes. A lot of men love it when you swallow, but he may also want to ejaculate on your body.
The Ropes
This is just one of a bunch of letters I've been receiving lately from my female readers. You may have spotted it in some of the adult magazines, as I've been circulating it around to all the editors I know. It's about a sexual enhancement that is getting a lot of buzz...
Nancy, my boyfriend has always been able to satisfy me sexually. With an ample cock-size, average endurance, and creative oral technique, he almost never fails to get me off. But what I experienced the night he returned home from a business trip in Europe was the surprise of my life—a fucking I will never forget, and an orgasm that no man before him has ever come close to equaling. Since I love to suck cock, the second my boyfriend dropped his luggage I stripped off his clothes and proceeded to please him with my best welcome-home blow job.
Before long my wet mouth had him pumping gob after hot gob down my throat and on my face. With a fistful of throbbing cock, I held on for dear life as he unloaded his sweet jism; these were "power throbs" that kept launching massive amounts of come. I've never seen anything like it—a man having a multiple! I was so totally turned on being nearly drowned with his super-human load. And it didn't stop there! He stayed erect, throwing me down on the floor and pounding my twat until we both had simultaneous, earth-shattering orgasms, practically causing both of us to pass out. The rest of the evening and throughout the week we fucked ourselves into a frenzy; his recovery time between these super-charged orgasms was that of a teenage boy.
Since that mind-blowing night, all I can think of is sucking and fucking my new "power lover" all hours of the day and night. Finally, curiosity got the best of me, so I asked what had turned him into such a fuck machine. His answer: He had learned "The Ropes."
Turns out my boyfriend had spent an evening in Europe with a Swedish nutritionist and his wife of 20 years. The couple was openly sexual and couldn't keep their hands off each other, so my boyfriend asked them their secret. The nutritionist explained he regularly took a natural supplement, and gave my boyfriend about a month's supply, telling him it would teach him "the ropes" of great sex.
The supply is about to run out, and we want to know where we can buy this incredible enhancement. Do you know if this product is available in the States?
Rebecca M.
San Diego , CA
Rebecca, as I've been informing readers, I do know all about what your last boyfriend used to enhance his orgasms. I'm happy to report that across the U.S. and Canada more and more men are finding out and using this unique supplement, learning that not only do they themselves benefit sexually, so too do their partners.
The physical contractions and fluid release during male orgasm can be multiplied and more sensitized using an all-natural product called Serogen. Although formulated to trigger stronger, longer orgasmic experiences in men by strengthening the prostate gland, an added bonus of using Serogen—from a woman's perspective—is that these powerful, added contractions men achieve while in the throes of an orgasm can induce an intense, simultaneous female climax.
Moreover, the term "ropes" Rebecca mentions in her letter is actually common European slang for the added contractions and heightened release that cause these rope-like sensations during male orgasm.
As far as finding this enhancement in the States, I know of just one importer - somalab.net.
Hairless and Smooth
Nancy, I need help! My boyfriend wants my pubic area to look like the girls in Hustler. You know, the ones that are absolutely hairless and smooth. I have tried shaving, waxing, and creams. Nothing makes me look like THAT! Please help.
Please let your boyfriend know that those perfectly smooth, bald and beautiful-pussied women in the slick adult magazine spreads are treated to a $100 professional "Brazilian" (pussy to ass!) wax before their photo shoot, and whatever wax marks that might be left over as well as other natural skin imperfections are then AIRBRUSHED to perfection!
Believe me, pussy care is a very involved procedure (as you know), and if you are not a full-time adult entertainer or a nude model (whose career depends on a perfect pussy), there simply is not enough time in your day or money on your wallet to keep your beaver trimmed EXACTLY the way HE wants it trimmed.
Try this: Plan to get a professional Brazilian wax (preferably at the end of a week or before you are both going away on vacation, or to a wedding, a party, etc.) and let him PAY for it, explaining that if he wants it perfectly bald and beautiful he must cough up the dough. His reward: An all-access pass to his lady's lovely manicured pussy that he helped maintain. Your reward: A weekend of him giving you and your pussy his undivided tongue and dick attention. You will find that you'll feel sexier, and you'll both have something to look forward to ... each time he pays for you to go to " Brazil."
First Orgasm
I received these two questions back to back about first orgasms.
I'm afraid when I actually do have my first orgasm I will pee on my boyfriend.
Is there any way to control your bladder without hindering an orgasm?
Also, what should I suggest for him to do to give me an orgasm so I don't disappoint him?Thanks!
My girlfriend and I have been together for three years, we love being intimate whenever we get together, which isn’t very often. So far we've only had oral sex and she claims to love it, unfortunately to my undying shame I haven't been able to make her cum. I'd give anything to make her orgasm so my question was this: on my most recent oral expedition, she got really into it... I thought she was going to orgasm but she eventually calmed down and told me she wasn't sure if she wanted to keep going. She told me later she felt like she was going to pee, since she's never had an orgasm before, she wasn’t sure if that’s what it really was so I told her and showed her an article, that it is normal to experience this sensation. Fortunately I think that she's over that fear now just because she wants to have an orgasm, but our method is usually me licking her clit and fingering her, which leads me to my question: if she gets to that point again, should I keep fingering her or should I pull my finger, will it matter whether it delays her orgasm? I've noticed in some movies that the stars stop altogether when the girl is having an orgasm, do girls prefer this or does it vary? What should I do when she's getting ready to reach that almighty point?
Don't worry, it's very, very rare that an accident like that would happen during orgasm, though you may occasionally feel the sensation of having to pee right before! But if it's something you're concerned about, simply go to the bathroom before sex. As a side note, urinating before and after sex is highly recommended to avoid nasty little bladder infections.
As for how to have an orgasm - it concerned me a little that you're worried about having one so as not to disappoint him. Make sure that you focus on your own pleasure and satisfaction as well. Find out what you enjoy so that YOU are not disappointed.
That said, a little exploration will go a long way! Spend time touching yourself to discover what works for you. Hard, fast, soft, slow, here or there? Invest in some toys and then bring your boyfriend into the mix. Tell him what you found out you enjoy.
A good and considerate lover will be open to communication, and will be willing to work with you to find what gets you off. Very, very few women are able to reach orgasm from penetration/sex alone - it will probably require a combination of oral/manual stimulation. Most importantly, focus on finding what feels good and don't stress over the orgasm immediately. The more you think about it, the harder and less fun it will be!
Good luck, be safe, and have fun!
First Kiss
My girlfriend wants to kiss me and I wanna kiss her but she can't seem to do it because its her first time.
How can I make her feel comfortable so I can kiss her?
Ah... I remember my first kiss! 14 years later, I still get a case of the giggles the first time I kiss someone new! Taking me by surprise seems to be the only way past it, and it can be very romantic. My boyfriend & I have been together 5 years now - when he first tried to kiss me, I knew he was about to and would start laughing. He waited until I was leaving, and moved in to kiss me before I realized he was going to, and I never giggled again!
So - next time your with her, wait until she least expects it, maybe while you're watching tv. Keep it simple, move towards her and just give her a gentle kiss (no scaring her off by jamming your tongue down her throat, and just light pressure of your lips on hers ok? Don't bruise her, but let her know you're there!) , hold it for a couple seconds, then move away. That should be a nice, not intimidating first kiss that will hopefully make her feel a little more comfortable.
Good luck!
He Won't Go Down
My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years, we have sex its great but I can't get him to go down on me but for a few minutes, he says he won't do it for longer than that because of a previous experience of a woman lying to him about not being on her monthly cycle and she was. Now he deprives me of the one thing I want.
How can I make him realize that I'm not like her?
Please help me!
What a load of crap.
IF that were true - then you say, "Honey, we have to have a relationship based on trust. If it bothers you that much, I promise to always warn you when I'm bleeding like a stuck pig. You can even be let off duty the day after it ends as well, just to play it safe, but the days in between, you gotta give me more than a few minutes down there." Then you give him a calendar where he can mark the days of your cycle just so he can keep an eye on it himself. But realistically - sorry, but he's full of it. He just doesn't like doing it for some reason.
I'll bet one of three things is going on:
A) He's nervous and is afraid he sucks at it, in which case be as encouraging as possible.
B) Maybe he doesn't like to do it because... well, maybe you aren't the freshest flower in the bunch, ya know what I mean? Make a habit of showering first, then enticing him to have sex, and ask him to PLEASE, PLEASE, PLEASE go down on you. See if you notice any difference in how long he stays down there.
Or
C) He's just a selfish, selfish man. If there's no good reason - he just doesn't wanna - then decide if you can live with it or not. I dated a guy for 4 years who did that for me TWICE. TWICE in four years. I decided I couldn't live with that, and have now been with someone for 5 years (and counting) who does everything I could ever dream of with enthusiasm.
But the big problem here is that he's making excuses and not being honest with you. Demand he tell you what's REALLY going on, and go from there.
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