Nancy-Ann advice on sex, love and erotic enhancements

20Aug/090

Hope for the uncut?

Is there anyway to make a penis bigger and longer if the penis isn't circumcises yet?

Does the skin cause a problem with becoming fully erect?

Also, every time I have sex with my wife, I don't last long, I orgasm before my wife. I've tried condoms, delay cream, and masturbating before having sex. It's not working.

Is there anyway to hold orgasm a little bit longer ?

MICHELANGELO'S DAVIDHaving your foreskin still has nothing to do with the length and size of your penis. If anything, the foreskin increases sensation. This helps the penis get as long as thick and as hard as possible. Removal of your foreskin would not have any benefit at all in regards to the size of your penis.

There are a few things that you can try to help you wait to cum. My first suggestion would be to slow your breathing while you are having sex. If you can slow your rhythm down, it can help delay orgasm. Instead of shallow and fast breaths, breath deeply and slowly. You can also practice holding off cumming by taking your time masturbating. Slowly get yourself as hard as you can. Take your time working yourself into a complete erection. Do not ejaculate. Let the erection go down a bit. Start over again. See how long you can keep yourself hard and aroused without ejaculating. Finally, let yourself ejaculate. This will help extend how long it takes for you to cum.

Finally, you can also arouse your girlfriend until she is just about to cum, either with you mouth or hands, and then have sex with her. Or let her cum first and then you can try to make her cum again with your penis.

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17Aug/090

Kendra [NSFW]

Inspiration of the week

kendraNaturism, or nudism, has always been associated with "colonies" or "beaches" where generally unattractive middle-aged people wander around "exploring the beauty of nudity." Generally, there's not much "sight seeing" to be had in such places, and if you're not naked, you like to avoid them.

Kendra was actually raised by "naturist" parents in Germany, and she is a bit of a naturist herself, preferring to be naked when she goes to the beach or hangs out around the apartment. She's even been known to go hiking naked, which was how this photo shoot came to be. Kendra knew of a nice private path to the top of a mountain, she took our photographer there, and the rest is history.

Lucky for us, in the pantheon of naturists, Kendra is definitely one of the prettiest. And we have lots of photos of her inside our member section showing us that lovely nude body. So, come on in and convene with Kendra as she "experiences pure nature."

kendra

11Aug/090

Mystery Fluid

The last time my lady and I got together we had great sex; before we fucked I licked her clit for a while. After we were finished, she told me she felt a little bit of fluid release. But I didn't experience anything noticeable. Since she has never had an orgasm I'm assuming she wouldn't really know what climaxing would feel like, let alone an orgasm that releases ejaculate. Also, I've never made a woman squirt before, but I wish I could. Do you have any improvement tips on cunnilingus or advice on technique to push her to have an orgasm?

Taylor L. - Los Angeles , CA

Statistics say that 75% of all women cannot have an orgasm through intercourse, but ... 95% of all woman can orgasm through oral sex. There are some women who are not sure if they have ever had an orgasm; some are afraid to have an orgasm. It is important for your partner to relax, know that she is safe, and that you won't judge her on how she reacts when she finally does have one. Some women will not allow themselves a chance to orgasm due to the fact they think they might not be able to control their bladder. Your partner may not have had an orgasm at all, but rather urinated a bit because she lost some control. Although this may seem gross, it is perfectly natural.

When you are being oral, be very patient. Do not rush things. Mix it up. Lick and tongue her vaginal lips and use your tongue like a little penis. Females tend to have two g-spots: the clitoris, and about three inches inside and up. Next time, try teasing her orally. Build it up some, licking and kissing her inner thighs, and possibly using a toy inside of her. Try making eye contact too. Erotic words can also increase one's pleasure tremendously. Most importantly, keep communication open before, during, and after any sexual act.

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27Jul/090

Desensitized?

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My girlfriend has recently enjoyed the use of sex toys, but it has not been positive in our sex life together. Now she cannot have an orgasm with me alone, as she once did several times during sex. It makes me feel like I am not doing my job anymore. Any advice?

Sex toys are great and can often be really important in having a healthy sexual relationship. In your case, it seems like sex toys are causing a bit of a problem. First off, I would suggest that you talk to your girlfriend about your concern that you are being replaced by toys. Sometimes what can help keep her sensitized is if she alternates using sex toys while she masturbates with using her hands. Help her get off without using sex toys. Stimulate her clit a bit more during foreplay. Give foreplay more time and really focus on making sure that she is close to orgasm before you actually have sex.
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18Jul/090

Relax Your Butt

I recently purchased some anal toys and I'm having a hard time penetrating my girlfriend. I have made sure that we use plenty of lube but she can't relax her muscles. Can you recommend any exercises or positions? I don't want to hurt her.

At first anal penetration can be a bit uncomfortable. I have always said that a few drinks beforehand never hurt. Try inserting your lubed finger first. Keep your finger inside her until you can feel her relax around it. Depending on how big your toy is, you may want to try this with two fingers. I think that ass in the air is the best position for training. As soon as you slowly take your fingers out, begin to insert the toy. Also make sure that you are keeping her stimulated by rubbing her clit. It will help her relax and keep lubricated.

13Jul/090

Assessing Possible STD's

A couple months ago, I noticed that the shaft of my penis beside the head and the foreskin around it became red, irritated, itchy, and it has some small spots on it. Sometimes there is no pain; other times it feels warm or just during intercourse it becomes very itchy and a bit painful. Is it some kind of allergy? Or it could be some kind of herpes infection?

I am very shy to visit my doctor.

Any advice?

A

Dear A,

Get to the doctor! This is a serious matter on many levels:

#1) Your health; and #2) The unfair possibility that you are likely passing on an STD to your partner.

Embarrassment IS NOT an option! You don’t have to visit your regular practitioner; any professional will do. Just get over it and take care of yourself. If not properly diagnosed and treated, your condition will only get worse and the likelihood of (unfairly) passing on a disease to one (or more) unsuspecting partners is unacceptable.

Hope this helps.

N-A